WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.480 There are three reasons most entrepreneurs 00:00:02.480 --> 00:00:08.240 stay broke their entire career, and none of them are what you probably think. It's not the economy. 00:00:08.320 --> 00:00:11.440 It's not your niche. It's not your following size. 00:00:11.600 --> 00:00:24.135 It's not even your work ethic. In fact, some of the hardest working people that I know are also the most broke. What's actually keeping you broke is invisible. It's running in the background like software you didn't know you installed. 00:00:24.695 --> 00:00:35.690 And the good news is that you can delete it. And today I'm going to show you exactly what it is and how to fix it because once you do, wealth isn't a goal anymore. 00:00:35.850 --> 00:00:38.330 It's inevitable. Now you may not know this but my 00:00:38.970 --> 00:00:52.775 dream growing up was to be a professional musician. I literally wanted to be a rock star. I wanted to get a record deal. I wanted to tour and I wanted to make music videos on MTV which kind of shows my age and, um, 00:00:53.175 --> 00:00:56.535 that dream was something I pursued hard in high school and college. 00:00:57.100 --> 00:01:04.620 I made a record, shopped around the labels and I talk about this story in great length in my second book Rebel. 00:01:05.980 --> 00:01:11.420 Suffice it to say the dream didn't come true and I found myself a few years later at age 26 00:01:11.945 --> 00:01:22.345 a thousand miles away from home with my very pregnant wife who then gave birth to our first daughter Chloe. We just bought our first house. We were moving to Florida for the first time from Virginia. 00:01:23.065 --> 00:01:27.850 And then I subsequently lost my second job in a span of ten months. 00:01:28.330 --> 00:01:30.490 So picture this, I'm 26 years old. 00:01:30.970 --> 00:01:32.010 I have a wife. 00:01:32.410 --> 00:01:33.530 I have a baby. 00:01:33.850 --> 00:01:35.050 I have a mortgage. 00:01:35.690 --> 00:01:45.805 I don't know very many people in this new town, just a few people that we moved here with to help start a church. I'm volunteering at this church as their musician, as their worship leader leading the band, 00:01:46.605 --> 00:01:53.245 and I have no way to make money. Now we had some savings, but we burned through that savings. So then I found myself at the end 00:01:53.405 --> 00:01:54.605 of myself, 00:01:54.930 --> 00:02:00.690 and I ended up doing something I never thought I would do, not something I never wanted to do, it never even crossed my mind 00:02:00.930 --> 00:02:02.770 which was applying for 00:02:03.010 --> 00:02:06.370 aid, applying for food stamps, they call it the SNAP program 00:02:06.690 --> 00:02:12.965 and the government qualified me because I made so little money. I made less than $500 a month. I was doing some odd 00:02:13.205 --> 00:02:18.805 gigs here and there. And so they paid for our groceries for eighteen months. And this was the most embarrassing, 00:02:19.285 --> 00:02:20.245 um, shameful, 00:02:21.010 --> 00:02:25.810 like, what is happening to me moment of my life. And I say all this to say that 00:02:26.850 --> 00:02:28.050 I never 00:02:28.930 --> 00:02:30.530 thought I would get rich. 00:02:31.490 --> 00:02:34.050 Um, that wasn't the goal. And 00:02:34.415 --> 00:02:36.335 But I certainly didn't think I'd be poor. 00:02:37.855 --> 00:02:38.655 And so 00:02:40.015 --> 00:02:44.335 what came up for me were a lot of feelings and a lot of ideas. 00:02:44.335 --> 00:02:45.295 And in fact, 00:02:45.935 --> 00:02:52.480 the thought that I had when I lost my second job during that period and I was on food stamps was I I don't want much. 00:02:53.200 --> 00:02:54.720 I don't want much. 00:02:55.840 --> 00:03:00.320 I wasn't angry that I wasn't rich. It wasn't like I've been trying to get wealthy and it wasn't happening. 00:03:01.215 --> 00:03:06.415 I actually had a really low bar. I just wanted to make enough to 00:03:06.735 --> 00:03:08.255 pay the bills and 00:03:08.975 --> 00:03:10.895 not have to work a job I hated. 00:03:11.215 --> 00:03:12.975 And I I think that's fine 00:03:13.230 --> 00:03:17.230 if that's your goal, but I I think that revealed something actually 00:03:18.110 --> 00:03:23.310 really sad about myself is I didn't even dream of more. I was already 00:03:23.790 --> 00:03:26.910 surrendered to the fact there's no way I'm gonna be rich. In fact, 00:03:27.525 --> 00:03:35.285 I wouldn't say this out loud, but knowing myself because I am myself and I live with my thoughts, when I analyze my thoughts from the past 00:03:35.765 --> 00:03:38.965 and I'm and I I have some awareness of how did I think back then? 00:03:39.810 --> 00:03:44.610 And and one way to know how you thought is how you talked and who you spoke to and what you spoke about. 00:03:44.930 --> 00:03:48.450 I realized that I subtly play the victim, 00:03:48.850 --> 00:04:01.945 and I was subtly saying and acting as if there are rich people and then there are not rich people. I didn't think I'd be poor, but I certainly didn't think I'd be rich. And it was almost like they're just different people than me. Like, there's no way I'm gonna be one of those rich people. 00:04:02.345 --> 00:04:04.905 I mean, heck, my only skill set is 00:04:05.145 --> 00:04:07.065 music and music recording. 00:04:07.790 --> 00:04:24.125 And most musicians don't make any money, and most recording engineers don't make any money. There's a very select few at the very, very top that make all the money, not because they've done anything wrong. They've been incredibly blessed, they deserve it. They're really, really good at what they do, but most people in this industry don't make money. And so it never crossed my mind to even want wealth. I never 00:04:24.765 --> 00:04:27.485 and and the reason why is I didn't wanna be disappointed. 00:04:28.685 --> 00:04:30.925 I don't want to want something, 00:04:31.085 --> 00:04:35.165 and I certainly didn't want to back then, dream about something and then not get it 00:04:35.800 --> 00:04:42.280 and be disappointed. So it's almost like I just gave up and surrendered. Right? Like, my friends that I went to high school with 00:04:42.680 --> 00:04:50.360 and college with, they were all becoming lawyers and doctors and investment bankers. They had degrees that led to good jobs 00:04:50.875 --> 00:04:52.395 with big salaries, 00:04:52.715 --> 00:04:58.075 and they were gonna be the guys driving the BMW and and having a nice house in the nice part of town. 00:04:58.555 --> 00:05:03.355 And while those things would be nice, I just didn't even allow myself to want those things. Does this make sense? 00:05:04.460 --> 00:05:05.260 And so 00:05:06.220 --> 00:05:07.820 I wrongly believed 00:05:08.460 --> 00:05:10.060 rich people are just different, 00:05:10.460 --> 00:05:13.260 and they must be lucky. They must be mega smart. 00:05:15.915 --> 00:05:21.595 They potentially did something illegal. A lot of people think that, but I I didn't think most people that were rich did something illegal. 00:05:22.315 --> 00:05:23.755 But I 00:05:24.235 --> 00:05:27.355 didn't think I could be one of those people. Never imagined myself. 00:05:28.490 --> 00:05:31.690 I don't know about you. I don't know if that's your story. I don't know if you 00:05:32.010 --> 00:05:39.130 have always assumed you're never gonna have a lot of money. But if you're listening to the sound of my voice, it's probably something you're not okay with. 00:05:40.105 --> 00:05:42.985 You want wealth. You don't wanna stay broke, 00:05:43.305 --> 00:05:46.345 whatever level that is for you. But something changed. 00:05:46.585 --> 00:05:49.945 Um, in that period of being broke and needing to figure something out, 00:05:50.425 --> 00:05:57.590 it's amazing what little pressure will do when you have to make something work. When what you're doing is no longer working, 00:05:58.390 --> 00:06:00.390 and you need to create something new, 00:06:00.950 --> 00:06:08.390 and find something new that works, it's amazing what you discover. Jesus says it really powerfully in Matthew chapter seven on the Sermon on the Mount. 00:06:09.725 --> 00:06:12.365 Seek, and you will find what you are seeking. 00:06:13.645 --> 00:06:22.925 Ask, and you will receive what you're asking for. Knock, and the door will be opened to you. So if you seek what you if you excuse me. If you find what you seek, 00:06:23.630 --> 00:06:29.390 well, that's really interesting because I was finding what I was seeking when I didn't wanna make a lot of money. 00:06:30.030 --> 00:06:34.270 I was finding myself. I was finding other people that didn't make a lot of money. They weren't ambitious. 00:06:34.510 --> 00:06:41.225 But the moment I needed to find something new, I had to go seek for something new, I found new things. And one of the things I found 00:06:41.945 --> 00:06:43.545 was that there were bloggers 00:06:43.545 --> 00:06:44.665 on the Internet 00:06:45.465 --> 00:06:49.865 making a lot of money. And I said, what in the world? These aren't 00:06:50.680 --> 00:06:56.600 people with degrees, although they might have had degrees, but they're not lawyers, doctors, investment bankers, celebrities, 00:06:57.000 --> 00:06:58.120 pro athletes, 00:06:58.200 --> 00:07:06.435 running big businesses. They weren't the head of, you know, Meta and Google and Tesla. Like, they weren't those types of people. They were a different 00:07:06.755 --> 00:07:08.115 crop of people 00:07:08.595 --> 00:07:10.515 that were making a ton of money. 00:07:10.755 --> 00:07:19.460 Um, one of the first that I saw when I knew how much he was making was Pat Flynn from Smart Passive Income. He was posting his monthly income reports, 00:07:19.620 --> 00:07:21.060 which was so 00:07:21.300 --> 00:07:22.340 amazing. 00:07:22.900 --> 00:07:27.220 Uh, and Pat's an amazing guy, by the way, I've been privileged to be a guest on his podcast. 00:07:27.700 --> 00:07:34.565 But he would literally post how much he made every month. And I was seeing things like, oh, last month, I made a $112,000. 00:07:34.565 --> 00:07:36.085 And I'm like, wait. What? 00:07:36.485 --> 00:07:40.645 You made that in a not only a year, you made that in a month? Like 00:07:41.365 --> 00:07:43.045 and you run a blog 00:07:43.845 --> 00:07:44.965 talking about 00:07:45.310 --> 00:07:55.470 how to build a business? Like, don't even where does the money come from? Like, my brain was, like, cracked open, and I I realized they figured something out that I haven't figured out yet. 00:07:56.350 --> 00:07:56.910 And 00:07:57.405 --> 00:08:02.445 I got so intrigued. Like, I'm gonna figure this out. Maybe I won't be making a $112,000 00:08:02.445 --> 00:08:05.885 a month like Pat Flynn, and the reality is I didn't. 00:08:06.605 --> 00:08:12.420 But these days, make a heck of a lot more than that per month, which is pretty wild. I make that in a day a lot of times. 00:08:12.980 --> 00:08:13.540 So 00:08:14.020 --> 00:08:22.580 that would have my brain would have exploded if me now told me then that that you could do 6 figures in a day. It didn't even make sense. But I was at least 00:08:22.955 --> 00:08:23.915 curious 00:08:24.955 --> 00:08:27.595 to discover they know something about money 00:08:27.835 --> 00:08:36.955 that I don't know. And there must be more to know that I don't know. And I went on a quest to figure it out. And what I'm here to share with you today really briefly are the three 00:08:37.540 --> 00:08:38.260 things 00:08:38.900 --> 00:08:44.180 that are keeping you broke, and they're invisible, and they're hidden, and I guarantee 00:08:44.260 --> 00:09:13.130 you're struggling with one of these things. If you're not where you want to be financially, however you like to measure that, that might be a certain amount you wanna make every month. It might be a certain, uh, net worth amount you want to have. It might be how that shows up in the physical world, like you're not living in the neighborhood you want to live in. You're not driving the kind of car you want to drive. You're not taking the kind of trips you want to take or sitting on the part of the plane that you wanna sit on. And I know these things are material and they don't matter that much, but they represent something to you that you have made it financially 00:09:13.210 --> 00:09:18.170 into a different category or echelon from where you're at. However you measure it, I can't measure that for you. 00:09:19.455 --> 00:09:24.495 If you're not there yet, it's because you're struggling with one or all of these three things. 00:09:25.615 --> 00:09:26.255 Okay. 00:09:27.135 --> 00:09:28.415 The great news is 00:09:29.055 --> 00:09:34.970 is that these things are just things that have been programmed into you and they can be an unprogrammed. They can be uninstalled. 00:09:35.050 --> 00:09:36.490 It's not it's not you. 00:09:36.970 --> 00:09:42.570 It's not your talent. It's not even your background where you come from. Like, you might have come from a harder background than others, 00:09:42.970 --> 00:09:53.215 but that doesn't determine your future. Okay? It's just the programming. And that's just such great news is you can uninstall bad programming. So it's not luck. It's not about timing. It's not about talent. 00:09:54.255 --> 00:09:57.215 Just let's pull back the curtain on these three things. Once you see them, 00:09:57.910 --> 00:10:07.990 delete these bad programs and install these new pieces of software as it were, these new operating systems, wealth becomes inevitable for you. Okay. So number one thing keeping you broke was, 00:10:08.230 --> 00:10:16.215 and for me and it is for you, your broke mindset. Mindset might be a trendy word, might be a buzzword, and you might be like, who cares about mindset? Please care about mindset. 00:10:17.015 --> 00:10:24.695 Mindset is more important than anything else. It's more important than your skill set. It's more important than your tool set. It's more important than your team set. However you wanna measure it. 00:10:25.530 --> 00:10:27.450 Mindset is everything. 00:10:28.490 --> 00:10:33.690 Robin Sharma said it famously, everything is created twice, first in the mind, then in reality. 00:10:34.250 --> 00:10:35.690 Everything begins 00:10:35.770 --> 00:10:36.890 with how you think. 00:10:38.245 --> 00:10:39.765 Proverbs 27, 00:10:40.085 --> 00:10:52.805 I think, verse three says, as a man thinks, so is he. Proverbs four twenty three, guard your heart above all else. The word heart there in the Hebrew, I believe it's Leb, correct me if I'm wrong, Hebrew scholars, 00:10:53.300 --> 00:10:58.980 means your inner man, your mind, your heart, the the the core of your being. 00:10:59.940 --> 00:11:05.620 Guard your inner man. Guard your mind. Guard your heart the way you think everything, inner being, 00:11:06.605 --> 00:11:07.405 because 00:11:07.805 --> 00:11:18.605 it determines the course of your life. This is powerful stuff. This is not woo woo. This is a reality. We know psychology tells us that you're always moving towards your strongest thoughts. So how you think, 00:11:19.005 --> 00:11:20.045 what you believe 00:11:20.205 --> 00:11:21.085 determines 00:11:21.560 --> 00:11:22.680 absolutely 00:11:22.680 --> 00:11:28.920 everything about what you do and how you show up and what you receive in life. I'm telling you, mindset is powerful, 00:11:29.160 --> 00:11:33.080 and so if you aren't where you want to be financially, it's probably 00:11:33.080 --> 00:11:36.440 because of a broken mindset. And not just broken, but a broke mindset. 00:11:37.345 --> 00:11:42.385 When I was 26, had a broke mindset and didn't know it. I probably have what I would categorize 00:11:42.625 --> 00:11:44.625 as a middle class mindset, 00:11:44.945 --> 00:11:46.785 but the middle class is dying, 00:11:47.105 --> 00:12:00.170 and it's really now you're seeing and it may have always been this way. It may be this is a theory I need to test and maybe do an episode on this, that the middle class is just a mirage all along. It's kind of a myth. It's always been broke people and rich people, 00:12:00.490 --> 00:12:10.885 but the middle class was this unique moment in time, at least in America and some other Western nations, where there was this group of people that are still broke mindset people, but they had this mirage 00:12:10.965 --> 00:12:11.605 of 00:12:12.005 --> 00:12:22.010 being slightly wealthy because they could drive nicer cars, live in nicer neighborhoods, but it's all built around credit. It's all built around debt. It's all built around paycheck to paycheck living. And that's evaporating 00:12:22.410 --> 00:12:26.890 because rich people think differently than broke people, and middle class people 00:12:27.530 --> 00:12:36.330 still aren't rich people, so I almost would categorize them as broke. Very, interesting thought, but I had a middle class mindset, but I believe I had a broke mindset. I didn't even know it. And the way I like to think about this 00:12:37.275 --> 00:12:39.035 is a thermostat. 00:12:39.035 --> 00:12:51.940 And I got this metaphor from Gay Hendrick in his brilliant book, The Big Leap. He talks about what he calls the upper limit problem. But think about a thermostat. Your mind is just like one. In your home, there's this device, we call it a thermostat, that controls the temperature. 00:12:52.180 --> 00:13:00.660 And it's really powerful because you can set it at the temperature you want the house to stay at all day. So let's say you wanna set it at 72 degrees Fahrenheit 00:13:00.740 --> 00:13:03.460 in your house. Well, if it gets warmer than 72, 00:13:03.705 --> 00:13:08.585 the air conditioning will turn on and and blow until the thermostat reads, 00:13:09.305 --> 00:13:32.570 okay, we're now back to 72, and then it turns the air conditioning off and it stays at 72 until it gets hot again. The opposite would happen if you're in a colder month. If you wanna keep the temperature at 72 degrees and it drops below that, the heat would kick on to raise the temperature back up to 72 degrees. Once it reads 72 again, drops or turns off the heat. This makes sense. Right? That's what a thermostat does. It holds 00:13:32.905 --> 00:13:33.785 temperature. 00:13:33.865 --> 00:13:37.945 You set it and forget it. This is the temperature I wanna have. 00:13:40.345 --> 00:13:40.905 You 00:13:41.305 --> 00:13:59.200 can work really, really hard. You can make a ton of money. You can get a big client. You can have a video pop off. You can go viral for a moment. You can have you can win the lottery. I mean, this is a great example. But if your thermostat is set to be broke, you'll always find a way back down to that preferred temperature. 00:14:00.735 --> 00:14:05.855 Now I say preferred temperature, but Graham, I don't prefer to be broke. But that's where your mindset is set. 00:14:06.255 --> 00:14:09.375 It's your mind is literally set at broke. 00:14:09.935 --> 00:14:13.055 And so even if money and abundance comes into your life, 00:14:14.000 --> 00:14:17.360 you have to revert to the mean. You have to revert back to 00:14:18.000 --> 00:14:26.640 who you are. Mindset really is identity. If you are a person, and I don't mean this as a dig on you, as if there's anything wrong with you as a person morally, ethically, 00:14:27.115 --> 00:14:31.195 But if you're a person who has a broke mindset, you are a broke person. 00:14:32.235 --> 00:14:36.235 Give a broke person more money, they still are a broke person. 00:14:37.035 --> 00:14:38.315 It doesn't make them wealthy. 00:14:39.450 --> 00:14:42.650 This is why it's so much more important to teach people 00:14:43.450 --> 00:14:49.690 how to be a wealthy person in their mind and heart first. New identities, new beliefs, 00:14:49.850 --> 00:14:50.570 new mindset. 00:14:51.305 --> 00:14:54.585 That's way more valuable to them than just give them money. 00:14:55.385 --> 00:14:58.345 And and before you clip this and judge me, 00:14:58.825 --> 00:15:02.505 there are people that need money right now to survive. 00:15:03.065 --> 00:15:12.750 My family and I support a ton of people in a ton of different ways that just need help. They need food, they need water, they need medical aid, they need education, 00:15:13.070 --> 00:15:17.070 uh, they need resources, they need money to pay the bills. Yes. 00:15:17.470 --> 00:15:18.510 Yes. And 00:15:19.085 --> 00:15:33.165 The whole teach a man to or give a man a fish, he'll eat for a day, teach a man a fish, eat for a lifetime. I think you need to give a man a fish and then teach him to fish while he's eating the fish you gave him. So help people, but to really help people, you have to raise their thermostat. 00:15:33.930 --> 00:15:35.930 If you don't change the thermostat 00:15:36.250 --> 00:15:39.370 of financial prowess, you don't change the mindset, 00:15:40.170 --> 00:15:44.570 it doesn't matter how much money comes into their life. They they'll always end up back where it's set. 00:15:45.050 --> 00:15:47.690 And what does this look like? Here are beliefs 00:15:48.065 --> 00:15:49.345 that I see 00:15:49.985 --> 00:15:55.185 that keep you broke. Mindsets that keep people broke. Number one most 00:15:55.345 --> 00:15:57.345 common is that money 00:15:57.825 --> 00:16:01.665 is evil. Now most people don't say money is evil out loud, 00:16:02.150 --> 00:16:06.870 but at a subconscious level, they believe money is evil, and that is why they don't have any. 00:16:07.670 --> 00:16:10.070 And it could be bad teaching in the church. 00:16:10.310 --> 00:16:27.685 Money is the root of all evil. That's not what the Bible literally says. Just crack it open and read it for yourself. It says the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Very, very, very different statement. Can money be a trap? Yes. That's not the point. I'm not here to debate whether money can be dangerous. Money is just like fire. 00:16:29.060 --> 00:16:30.500 Fire is dangerous. 00:16:30.980 --> 00:16:35.780 Does that mean we should never use fire? No one should have fire because fire is dangerous? No. That's ridiculous. 00:16:36.180 --> 00:16:38.420 When used carefully and safely, 00:16:38.660 --> 00:17:06.080 fire can cook your food and heat your home. K? It could do a lot of other things. Money is just a tool, just like fire is a tool, a chainsaw is a tool, a dangerous tool. So you should know the dangers of it. Don't be ignorant to the dangers of it, but don't say it's evil because it's not. Jesus never said it was. Paul, who wrote that passage, by the way, in first Timothy six, said it was. That doesn't even make any sense if you read the Bible. Money is not evil. Money is a gift that God gives to his people that follow his teachings. Like, money is not the problem. 00:17:06.800 --> 00:17:11.055 But if you believe at a subconscious level that money is evil, you're gonna repel money. 00:17:11.775 --> 00:17:18.415 Because you don't wanna be an evil person. And this is happening at a subconscious level. I've talked about this a lot, but I'm gonna that's one of the biggest ones. 00:17:19.295 --> 00:17:26.810 How do you know if you have this belief? If you judge other people to have money. Even in your heart, if you're like, they don't deserve that. Why does he have all that money? 00:17:27.450 --> 00:17:31.450 Why why why don't the billionaires pay more in taxes? All of that. 00:17:32.250 --> 00:17:43.465 I don't care what you believe. All of that shows that you believe money is evil. Judgment of other people with money is a judgment against yourself, and that is the reason why you're broke. Number two, money belief, 00:17:43.625 --> 00:17:47.065 is that making money is hard or creating wealth is hard. 00:17:48.105 --> 00:17:49.225 If you say so. 00:17:50.265 --> 00:17:51.385 If you say so. Right? 00:17:52.650 --> 00:17:56.810 If you say and believe making money is hard, guess what? 00:17:57.530 --> 00:18:00.010 Whatever you seek, will find, Jesus said. 00:18:00.650 --> 00:18:02.090 K. There 00:18:02.170 --> 00:18:03.130 you said it. 00:18:03.690 --> 00:18:05.130 I believe making money is easy, 00:18:05.845 --> 00:18:11.845 and therefore it is easy for me. Well, that's easy for you to say, Graham, you have money. No. That's what I believed when I didn't have money. 00:18:12.325 --> 00:18:17.845 I had a moment shift for me when I sold my very first online course. This was April 2010. 00:18:18.030 --> 00:18:35.565 It was called Pro Tools Boot Camp. It was a $47 online training teaching you how to record music with a specific piece of software. I didn't even know it was called an online course. I just knew I was selling videos in a zip file with a PayPal button to a guy named Paul somewhere around the country. I don't even know who Paul is. If you're listening, Paul, you are my first customer. 00:18:35.965 --> 00:18:37.245 In 2010. 00:18:37.565 --> 00:18:39.885 Um, the moment I made those $47, 00:18:39.885 --> 00:18:41.005 I was not wealthy. 00:18:42.540 --> 00:18:50.140 But all of a sudden, I said, oh my gosh. Even though it took me time to make this thing and it took me my knowledge, my expertise and blah blah blah blah, 00:18:50.700 --> 00:18:52.380 that sale was so easy. 00:18:52.940 --> 00:18:58.895 And I could now imagine making a lot more of those sales somehow, some way. And making money seemed easier to me. 00:18:59.615 --> 00:19:07.935 And the moment I believed that making money was easy, guess what? It got real easy. I didn't become a millionaire overnight. It took a few more years, 00:19:08.495 --> 00:19:16.540 but money started to come in. So if you believe making money is hard, guess what? That's what your thermostat is set for. Here's another one, and we'll move on, is 00:19:17.420 --> 00:19:23.260 wealth is for other people. Other people get to be rich, not me. It's it's just for other people. I would like to be rich, 00:19:24.585 --> 00:19:28.025 but it's just it's just not in the cards for me. That is 00:19:28.985 --> 00:19:30.745 more akin to my belief. 00:19:31.305 --> 00:19:40.060 But really what that says is is you're a victim. Is is you're sad because you wish it could be for you, but you know what that is? Victims don't have to try. 00:19:40.860 --> 00:19:43.580 The benefit of being a victim is you don't have to try. 00:19:43.900 --> 00:19:47.980 You can just say, I'm just not the kind of person that gets to be wealthy. Woe is me. 00:19:48.540 --> 00:19:58.615 And and that sounds like a weird benefit, but it is a benefit because a, people can feel sorry for you, b, you can feel sorry for yourself, but c, you're off the hook. You don't have to try and risk. 00:19:59.655 --> 00:20:00.855 Entrepreneurs, 00:20:00.855 --> 00:20:01.895 by definition, 00:20:01.975 --> 00:20:02.935 risk. 00:20:03.975 --> 00:20:06.535 They try something that may or may not work. 00:20:07.710 --> 00:20:22.670 And there's some inherent fear of of risking and it not working out. But until you've done it and it didn't work out and you realize you're fine, you'll just try something new and it's gonna be fine. You realize it's actually not that much of a risk. The greater risk is not taking action and staying broke your whole life. That's actually a greater risk. 00:20:24.375 --> 00:20:25.015 So 00:20:25.175 --> 00:20:36.855 believing that wealth is for other people, again, if you say so, by definition, should not be wealthy. I didn't come from a wealthy family. I don't know anybody who's wealthy. I didn't have any skills that created wealth. I was making $30,000 00:20:36.855 --> 00:20:40.340 a year. I got paid with a college degree, 00:20:40.500 --> 00:20:45.940 $15 an hour to work at a software company. With a college degree, a specialized college degree, 00:20:46.740 --> 00:20:54.525 $15 an hour. I was not on track to be wealthy. There's no I became a millionaire at age 35, like a net worth millionaire. It's funny. The same year 00:20:55.165 --> 00:21:01.485 my net worth crossed over a million dollars is also the same year that my income crossed over a million dollars a year. It's kinda cool. They're not related. 00:21:02.445 --> 00:21:08.685 Um, just because you make a million dollars a year in your business doesn't make you a millionaire because most people, by the way, that's not profit. That's revenue minus profit. 00:21:09.380 --> 00:21:22.420 Take home. But two, just because you even take that money home doesn't mean you actually have wealth because if you spend it, it's gone. But I became a net worth millionaire and my income became a million dollars a year income all in the same year at age 35. 00:21:23.245 --> 00:21:28.045 That's way above that, like way before the average millionaire. It's usually in their late fifties. 00:21:28.765 --> 00:21:44.440 Right? So I never could have guessed that. If I had gone my whole life saying, well, I'll never be wealthy, that probably would have been the reality for me. But the moment I was like, may I don't know. Like, these bloggers, they don't seem like the traditional person making money. Maybe it's if it's possible for them, 00:21:45.080 --> 00:21:49.720 maybe it's possible for me. That was at least a start. Wasn't a strong mindset, but it's a start. 00:21:50.040 --> 00:21:53.865 So where is your thermostat? Where is your thermostat set? 00:21:54.425 --> 00:22:04.025 Do you have a broke mindset? I spent more time here because this is the most important one, but I'm I'm gonna fly through these next two because if you if you have a broke mindset, that is the reason why 00:22:04.460 --> 00:22:08.380 you don't have the wealthy one yet. But if you fix this, if you change your beliefs 00:22:08.540 --> 00:22:11.820 and what one thing I love that I I learned from David Bayer, 00:22:12.940 --> 00:22:15.260 uh, in his book, A Changed Mind, 00:22:15.420 --> 00:22:16.220 is that 00:22:17.355 --> 00:22:19.595 all a new belief is is a decision. 00:22:20.235 --> 00:22:21.755 The moment you decide, 00:22:22.475 --> 00:22:24.395 and literally the word decide 00:22:24.395 --> 00:22:27.835 is is a compound word in in the Latin de, meaning 00:22:28.800 --> 00:22:32.720 of or from and cide, c I d e, to cut. 00:22:33.200 --> 00:22:35.200 To cut from or to cut off. 00:22:35.920 --> 00:22:39.600 Literally, to decide means to cut yourself off from other options. 00:22:41.055 --> 00:22:49.215 That's different than choosing like I want that or that. A decision is like this is the direction I'm going. I'm not looking back. A decision by definition is a new belief. 00:22:49.535 --> 00:22:52.975 And what's cool is you can make a new decision in an instant right now. 00:22:53.630 --> 00:22:55.070 You don't have to 00:22:55.310 --> 00:22:56.110 wait 00:22:56.350 --> 00:22:57.870 to have this new believer, 00:22:58.030 --> 00:23:01.870 become this new person. No. The way you become the new person is decide. 00:23:02.910 --> 00:23:09.925 I am a wealthy person. I am a person that believes that I wealth is inevitable for me. Wealth is not evil. Wealth is actually good. 00:23:10.325 --> 00:23:23.690 Wealth is not hard to create. It's actually easy. And wealth isn't for other people out there. It's for me. And I'm gonna I decide I just didn't decide to raise my thermostat. So if your thermostat is a I'm a $50,000 a year person. I'm gonna raise that thermostat to $500,000 00:23:23.690 --> 00:23:32.010 a year. I don't know how. The how doesn't matter. Your brain and your circumstances will discover the how. Your whole brain is a goal achieving machine. 00:23:32.410 --> 00:23:34.170 That's the whole premise of Doctor. 00:23:34.810 --> 00:23:35.210 Malcolm 00:23:36.010 --> 00:23:39.235 oh gosh, Whatever his name is, freaking psychocybernetics. 00:23:39.235 --> 00:23:40.275 Maxwell Maltz. 00:23:40.435 --> 00:23:43.315 Maxwell Maltz, I think is his name. Psychocybernetics. 00:23:43.315 --> 00:23:45.155 That's our brain is a psychocybernetics 00:23:45.155 --> 00:23:46.915 system just like a torpedo 00:23:46.915 --> 00:24:06.345 that's set to lock onto something. Like, it it it's constantly course correcting, and it's getting blown off course, but it it will it will find its destination because we're goal seeking machines. That's the way our our brains are wired. So it's just a decision. That's the great news. Decide to be wealthy. Decide that wealth is inevitable for you. Raise your thermostat 00:24:06.345 --> 00:24:07.385 and watch 00:24:07.865 --> 00:24:09.065 what you notice. 00:24:09.225 --> 00:24:09.945 Watch 00:24:10.105 --> 00:24:16.620 what conversations you enter into. Watch what books you start to read. Watch what kind of people you hang out with. Watch what happens. 00:24:17.180 --> 00:24:17.820 Okay. 00:24:17.980 --> 00:24:23.260 Broke mindset. That's the most important one. And let's get to these next two. We'll go a lot quicker. Number two is broke models. 00:24:24.060 --> 00:24:26.780 So let's say you fix the broke mindset, now you have a wealthy mindset. 00:24:27.275 --> 00:24:30.955 You can have the right mindset but if you have the wrong blueprint you'll still get wrong results. 00:24:31.115 --> 00:24:33.115 I'm speaking to you entrepreneurs right now. 00:24:34.155 --> 00:24:38.475 You believe wealth is inevitable for you because it is if you decide so. 00:24:38.955 --> 00:24:47.850 You're moving towards it, you're raising your thermostat but if you have a business model that's broken, it is really hard to become wealthy with a broken business model. Let me tell you, 00:24:48.650 --> 00:24:50.010 the business model 00:24:50.330 --> 00:24:50.890 that 00:24:51.690 --> 00:24:53.690 I see people still clinging to, 00:24:54.405 --> 00:24:59.605 and I I understand why. I taught it. I've made millions from it, but I don't think it works anymore, 00:25:00.325 --> 00:25:02.165 is low ticket courses. 00:25:02.165 --> 00:25:04.165 Trying to blow up on the Internet 00:25:04.485 --> 00:25:05.925 or run ads 00:25:05.925 --> 00:25:07.285 to low ticket courses. 00:25:08.560 --> 00:25:27.135 I just don't see the math working anymore. It is a lot harder to get the volume you need to generate serious income with a low ticket course or membership for that matter. And I've made millions off of both, so it's really painful for me to say that, But I don't want to tell you to do what I did because it worked back then. 00:25:27.535 --> 00:25:31.535 It's it it can still work now. That's the caveat. There's always exceptions. 00:25:32.175 --> 00:25:38.210 But I love you too much to say, yeah. Run that play. Not the play I'm running anymore. It's not the play I would recommend beginners run. 00:25:38.770 --> 00:25:40.130 I've just seen too much. 00:25:40.450 --> 00:25:41.650 So low ticket 00:25:42.210 --> 00:25:42.930 offers, 00:25:43.250 --> 00:25:45.250 um, chasing followers. 00:25:46.530 --> 00:25:48.850 It's like, okay. Here's my model. I gotta get really, really famous. 00:25:49.345 --> 00:25:50.065 Nope. 00:25:50.865 --> 00:25:53.265 That model that model doesn't work. 00:25:54.225 --> 00:26:04.465 And we know this because there are literally influencers with millions of followers who don't make hardly any money. If having all the followers led to the money somehow, that's not a business model. That's like a hope and a prayer. 00:26:05.140 --> 00:26:05.780 K? 00:26:06.580 --> 00:26:15.220 Another model that's broken is just trend chasing, where where literally you almost create a new business model every three months when you see a new trend. Because last year, 00:26:16.260 --> 00:26:19.380 you were an online course person. This year, you're an AI 00:26:19.545 --> 00:26:20.345 specialist. 00:26:20.345 --> 00:26:21.385 I mean, like, 00:26:22.105 --> 00:26:23.225 I understand 00:26:23.705 --> 00:26:30.505 that it can be smart to jump on a a topic that's trending, but if you keep changing your business model because the trends change, 00:26:31.385 --> 00:26:33.145 you will never become masterful. 00:26:34.010 --> 00:26:39.770 Yes, you need to evolve. Yes, you need to pivot. Yes, markets change. I get that. And they're changing faster and faster and faster. 00:26:40.090 --> 00:26:41.770 But business models 00:26:42.410 --> 00:26:46.650 are the same. Like, there's a lot of different types of business models that work, but pick a model that works. 00:26:47.365 --> 00:26:56.245 You don't wanna climb up fast if it's the wrong building. Right? You don't wanna be at the top fast of the wrong building. So find the right building to climb up. 00:26:57.285 --> 00:26:58.485 And it's funny because 00:26:59.620 --> 00:27:04.900 one of the things that's broken in in most people's business models is that there's this and I keep seeing it. 00:27:05.780 --> 00:27:06.740 There's this 00:27:08.100 --> 00:27:29.545 we talk about Ascension models with our offers, like, first, you have a lower ticket offer and then, you know, core product and then a premium product. And I I have a lot to say about that. I don't actually think the Ascension model is the model anymore, but there's also an internal Ascension model. And I I see this with my clients where people say, well, first, I gotta do this in my business, and then I'll graduate to this, and then I'll stair step up to this. 00:27:30.520 --> 00:27:33.720 And I'll give you an example. I was running my 10 k offer challenge. 00:27:34.040 --> 00:27:35.560 I run this virtual event 00:27:36.120 --> 00:27:45.960 where I help people create a high ticket offer, take whatever they're selling for a couple $100, a thousand bucks, and and reimagine as a $10,000 or more offer and how to sell those things and make them irresistible. 00:27:46.495 --> 00:27:48.415 It's the fastest way to grow your business. 00:27:49.615 --> 00:27:56.335 I'll link to it below if you wanna come to the next one. It'll change your business, change your life. One of one of my students at the last ten k offer challenge, 00:27:57.055 --> 00:27:58.015 she was 00:27:59.070 --> 00:28:02.750 creating a new offer and she got up the courage to make it a $10,000 00:28:02.750 --> 00:28:05.950 offer. And she specifically was helping doctors 00:28:07.870 --> 00:28:14.575 with their business is kinda chaotic. She helps them with their staffing, helps them with their their operations, helps them stop the bleeding, 00:28:15.055 --> 00:28:16.655 and she kinda finds 00:28:17.135 --> 00:28:33.680 hidden money in their business, in their practice. She her offer sounded awesome until she told me the price, $10,000, which you think I'd be happy with. It's I'm running an event called the $10,000 offer challenge, the 10 k offer challenge. And, um, I said, Tanya, why did you land on $10,000? She's like, oh, I just thought it'd be a great a great place to start. 00:28:34.320 --> 00:28:38.985 I said, well, what do you think the offer is really worth? And I said, let let me just ask you this. 00:28:39.625 --> 00:28:50.505 Give me an example of a client that you've helped, the client's story real quick. What transformation have you done for them? Well, I helped this one doctor plug some leaks, fix some stuff, and we've added 200 new or excuse me, a 100 new customers, 00:28:51.050 --> 00:28:53.050 patients every month consistently 00:28:53.050 --> 00:29:01.850 at $200 a month. So we've basically added $20,000 a month of revenue that was just hidden hidden before. And I said, you're telling me you're creating $240,000 00:29:01.850 --> 00:29:07.605 a year of new revenue for this client and you only wanna charge them $10,000 for the offer? I said, Tanya, that's a $25,000 00:29:07.605 --> 00:29:09.125 offer. She said, I know. 00:29:09.525 --> 00:29:12.405 I said, then why are you charging 10,000? Here's what she said. 00:29:13.205 --> 00:29:15.125 I thought it was a good starting spot. 00:29:15.365 --> 00:29:18.325 I think I thought I would start there and then work my way up. 00:29:19.460 --> 00:29:23.460 That language right there, work my way up, is such a myth. 00:29:23.700 --> 00:29:26.580 I I literally I said, Tanya, can I play with you? 00:29:27.060 --> 00:29:28.100 There are no 00:29:28.500 --> 00:29:29.700 offer police 00:29:30.100 --> 00:29:35.145 that are gonna bang down your door and say, Tanya, you can't just jump to $25,000 00:29:35.145 --> 00:29:45.465 with your offer. Who do think you are? You gotta start at 10, and then when you sell a few, raise it to 12. And now that you're okay. Then 16, and eventually, you'll get up to 25. I said, Tanya, that's not how this works. 00:29:46.660 --> 00:29:48.820 The offer is either worth $25,000 00:29:48.820 --> 00:29:49.780 or it's not. 00:29:50.340 --> 00:29:51.620 Why delay 00:29:52.340 --> 00:29:57.780 winning? Why delay the inevitable? It is what it is. Just go right to 25 k. And she said, alright. 00:29:58.715 --> 00:30:02.715 I literally whenever her next offer is made, I just saved her $15,000. 00:30:02.715 --> 00:30:04.315 I made her an extra $15,000 00:30:04.315 --> 00:30:04.795 because 00:30:05.515 --> 00:30:13.995 she felt that she had to follow this model. Well, first you do this, then you do that, then you do that. She was taking the long way around. I think about GPS 00:30:14.770 --> 00:30:22.050 on your phone or in your car. You set the destination. I think we all want a similar destination. We wanna be wealthy. We wanna be successful in our businesses. 00:30:22.450 --> 00:30:29.890 Um, we wanna have time freedom. But have you ever noticed when you put in an address in your GPS, it shows you multiple ways to get there, multiple routes? 00:30:30.895 --> 00:30:32.415 And you could optimize 00:30:32.415 --> 00:30:35.535 the route based off of, oh, please avoid tolls 00:30:35.535 --> 00:30:37.135 or avoid highways 00:30:37.135 --> 00:30:41.855 or let's go the scenic route. Like, you could choose which route you want to to to go. 00:30:42.750 --> 00:30:45.230 And I don't know if you ever noticed that because most people, 00:30:46.030 --> 00:30:47.710 because this makes sense, 00:30:47.950 --> 00:30:49.470 pick the fastest route. 00:30:50.190 --> 00:30:51.790 And by default, the app 00:30:52.030 --> 00:30:53.710 will show you the fastest route first. 00:30:54.925 --> 00:30:57.885 But for whatever reason, when it comes to business and life, 00:30:58.765 --> 00:31:00.285 people are incredibly 00:31:00.285 --> 00:31:02.045 good at taking the slowest, 00:31:02.445 --> 00:31:04.125 most roundabout route. 00:31:04.845 --> 00:31:05.485 Well, 00:31:05.805 --> 00:31:08.845 first, I gotta build a website, and then I gotta 00:31:09.210 --> 00:31:14.970 start with a low ticket offer, and then I gotta, you know, I gotta prove myself. I gotta get some testimonials, 00:31:14.970 --> 00:31:19.290 and then I gotta I don't know why I'm doing that accent. Please forgive me. I'm not sure I make fun of anybody. 00:31:20.250 --> 00:31:22.570 And they just they map 00:31:22.570 --> 00:31:24.010 out the slowest, 00:31:24.845 --> 00:31:26.445 most zigzaggy, 00:31:26.445 --> 00:31:29.325 like yeah. And then eventually, I will be ready 00:31:29.645 --> 00:31:41.780 to sell at this level or do this kind of thing or run a challenge or have a high ticket coaching client or speak on a stage or there's no, like, one day you'll be ready. You just do the thing. You just 00:31:42.180 --> 00:31:42.820 why 00:31:43.140 --> 00:31:44.900 wouldn't you pick the fastest 00:31:44.980 --> 00:31:45.700 path 00:31:46.180 --> 00:31:47.620 to get where you wanna go? 00:31:48.020 --> 00:31:51.380 I'm not saying you rush. I'm not saying you you you 00:31:51.725 --> 00:32:02.125 you run faster than is possible and sacrifice your health and your family and your time freedom and your spirituality and all those other things to get there. I'm not saying that. I'm saying people are opting for the slowest path 00:32:03.005 --> 00:32:10.630 because they're running the the wrong play to get to I think we all have the same destination, running the wrong model, following the wrong path, and it's slow. 00:32:10.870 --> 00:32:28.675 And we're like, it's taken me a long time. It does not have to take you a long time. And I know this because I coach entrepreneurs every single day, I have entrepreneur clients that take the slow path because they decided that's just what they think they have to do. And then I have other clients in the same program who go there really fast, not because they're smarter, not because they were they were more 00:32:28.675 --> 00:32:43.990 poised to win when they came into the program, because they just decided what's the fastest path. I'm just gonna do that. I'm gonna go right to that. I'm gonna raise my prices right to that. I'm going to, you know, stop doing the things that are slow and do the things that are fast because, Graham, like, they just believe 00:32:44.550 --> 00:32:52.205 that the fastest path is available for them. You can take a slow path to get to your goals, and if it's a good path, will eventually get there, 00:32:53.005 --> 00:32:55.165 but you will have wasted so many years. 00:32:56.205 --> 00:33:08.160 I don't know about you, but I don't wanna waste any time. I don't really know that tomorrow's promised, and even if it is, I want more time with that wealth and those goals achieved in less time. Also, let's just be practical. Inflation is a real thing. 00:33:09.120 --> 00:33:20.080 Money in ten years from now is not worth as much as it is today. I would rather make a million dollars this year than a million dollars in ten years because a million dollars in ten years is probably closer to worth $500,000. 00:33:20.080 --> 00:33:20.560 So 00:33:21.595 --> 00:33:25.195 making money sooner is by definition more valuable. 00:33:25.915 --> 00:33:31.435 So do you have a broken model? Do you have a broken business model? If you need help figuring out your your business model, 00:33:32.475 --> 00:33:40.540 pick up the effortless business. This this business model will will get you to a high income, low maintenance business faster than anything I've ever seen. 00:33:41.020 --> 00:33:45.660 And number three thing keeping you broke is broke metrics. So you've got a broke mindset. 00:33:45.980 --> 00:33:47.740 That's everything. If you have broken model, 00:33:48.425 --> 00:33:53.305 you'll be broke forever even if you're working really hard and believe that wealth is possible for you and inevitable. 00:33:53.385 --> 00:33:58.425 But the last thing holding you back is broke metrics, chasing broke metrics. 00:33:59.465 --> 00:34:00.425 I was thinking about this. 00:34:01.780 --> 00:34:03.700 It's kinda like the difference between 00:34:04.820 --> 00:34:06.820 looking at yourself in the mirror 00:34:07.540 --> 00:34:11.780 and knowing what's actually going on in your body. You can look in the mirror and say, man, 00:34:12.420 --> 00:34:19.875 I look great. I look healthy. However that means for you. Whether you feel like you're ripped or shredded or muscular or just 00:34:20.195 --> 00:34:30.840 you just everything looks fine on the outside. But you have no idea what's going on in the inside until you do blood work, till you get blood panels and you you see there's some things that are off. You see certain levels that are high or low or missing or like 00:34:31.880 --> 00:34:45.785 the mirror doesn't tell you what's actually going on. So if I judged my health by what I see in the mirror every day, I could think that I'm healthy all the way into the day I die, I and could die all of sudden from something I didn't even know was there. I'm not trying to be morbid. I'm not trying to make you fearful. 00:34:45.785 --> 00:34:48.985 I'm just saying. Right? The mirror doesn't tell you how healthy you are. 00:34:49.625 --> 00:34:53.225 Only blood work does. Broke metrics feel like you're winning, but you're not. 00:34:53.910 --> 00:34:56.070 What are broke metrics? Followers. 00:34:56.390 --> 00:34:59.590 One of the most broke who cares how many followers you have? 00:35:00.790 --> 00:35:05.510 Followers feels nice, but it's a vanity metric. It has no bearing on how much money you make. 00:35:06.665 --> 00:35:11.145 No bearing on how much money you make. Couple of weeks ago, I did an episode called Tiny Audience, Huge Income. 00:35:11.305 --> 00:35:15.465 And the example I gave was one of my clients, Iko. She has 500 00:35:16.665 --> 00:35:18.825 subscribers on YouTube. 500. 00:35:18.825 --> 00:35:20.105 You could call that laughable. 00:35:21.430 --> 00:35:23.750 But who's laughing? She makes $30,000 00:35:23.750 --> 00:35:27.510 a month as an English pronunciation coach to native Japanese speakers. 00:35:27.830 --> 00:35:28.550 Oh, 00:35:28.950 --> 00:35:30.150 that's a great life. 00:35:30.630 --> 00:35:41.205 Followers don't matter. I know people that have 1,000,000 followers and don't make a fraction of what Aiko makes. So followers is a wrong metric to chase. Um, views on your videos or on your reels, 00:35:41.285 --> 00:35:42.965 um, likes, engagement. 00:35:43.125 --> 00:35:49.685 These are all things that we all want because here's why, because they're the visible ones. And and I will say there is some 00:35:50.400 --> 00:35:52.720 value in the visible metrics 00:35:53.200 --> 00:36:01.360 for credibility because other people care about it. And if they see that you have a million followers, they for a moment might think there's something special about you. They might consider 00:36:02.240 --> 00:36:06.160 connecting with you. They might consider responding to your message. They might consider 00:36:06.455 --> 00:36:10.775 reaching out to you because there well, there must be something she's doing right if she's got a million followers. 00:36:10.935 --> 00:36:13.015 So there is value. I'm not saying there's not value, 00:36:13.495 --> 00:36:17.175 but it's a broke metric. It's not a metric that makes you money. At best, 00:36:17.255 --> 00:36:29.390 broke metrics like followers, views, likes, engagement, subscribers. At best, they'll just distract you from the real metrics and the real work that actually puts money in your pocket. It's just a giant distraction. 00:36:30.910 --> 00:36:35.470 As a content creator, you have a choice. Do I make content that will get me a lot of views? 00:36:36.285 --> 00:36:38.445 Or do I make content that will create clients? 00:36:39.085 --> 00:36:44.045 Now those things don't have to be mutually exclusive. I'm not saying you should purposely choose low views. 00:36:44.205 --> 00:36:47.965 By all means, get as many views as you can. I'm saying, what drives 00:36:48.490 --> 00:36:51.930 you? Is it the cart driving the horse or the horse driving the cart? 00:36:52.170 --> 00:36:55.130 What are you optimizing for? Do not optimize 00:36:55.370 --> 00:36:56.650 for virality. 00:36:57.290 --> 00:36:59.450 Optimize for client attraction. 00:37:00.010 --> 00:37:01.210 And if virality comes, 00:37:01.875 --> 00:37:02.835 by all means, 00:37:03.075 --> 00:37:10.515 you'll attract more of your clients. But a video or a piece of content that goes viral that isn't optimized for client attraction 00:37:10.595 --> 00:37:12.355 does not help your business. 00:37:13.235 --> 00:37:16.835 It's a huge part of my business model, and I call them creating client magnets. 00:37:17.480 --> 00:37:26.760 That is, in my opinion, what you should be optimizing your content for. So at best, these wrong metrics distract you. This wasted time. It's wasted effort. Wasted momentum. 00:37:27.240 --> 00:37:33.000 Here's what's insidious about it though. At at worst, these broke metrics destroy your hope. Because 00:37:34.325 --> 00:37:36.245 these games becoming 00:37:36.245 --> 00:37:39.605 incredibly famous on the Internet is incredibly hard. 00:37:40.805 --> 00:37:41.445 Now, 00:37:41.765 --> 00:37:47.765 some people, it happens almost effortlessly and so they are lulled into this belief that, oh, it's easy to go viral. It's not easy. 00:37:48.330 --> 00:38:00.810 That oftentimes, it's called luck. And I'm I'm not, um, saying that I'm not saying that as a diss. But if you went viral without really trying, you were you had the right message at the right time for the right people to praise God for that. That's awesome. 00:38:03.255 --> 00:38:08.055 But it's a really hard game to win, and it's only gotten harder as the algorithms shift 00:38:08.535 --> 00:38:12.535 because they're responding to AI and to each other and competitors. 00:38:12.535 --> 00:38:15.750 Like, it's it's a it's a wild world out there. 00:38:16.070 --> 00:38:23.270 The last thing you want as an entrepreneur is to lose your hope. The scripture says hope deferred makes the heart sick. Hope deferred makes the heart sick. 00:38:23.990 --> 00:38:27.510 The way to win in business is to stay in the game long enough to win. 00:38:28.695 --> 00:38:42.050 One of the surest ways to exit the game before you have a chance of winning is to just give up hope entirely. Get discouraged, beat down over and over again. And I don't know if that's how you felt. I don't know if you've been like, Graham, I've been trying this for years. I've been trying this for years, 00:38:42.690 --> 00:38:45.330 and nothing has worked. Like, that's that's discouraging. 00:38:45.330 --> 00:38:46.850 I get that. I get that. 00:38:47.490 --> 00:38:48.450 I worked 00:38:49.010 --> 00:38:53.345 and built my business and pumped out three pieces of content a week for 00:38:53.505 --> 00:38:54.865 a whole year 00:38:56.145 --> 00:39:00.545 full time and made a whopping $10,000. 00:39:01.425 --> 00:39:03.185 That's $830 00:39:03.185 --> 00:39:04.225 a month on average 00:39:04.770 --> 00:39:08.290 working full time. If I quit and that would have been justifiable, 00:39:08.290 --> 00:39:21.845 most people said, bro, I did I gave it a year. I'm going back to find a job. If I quit, I would have given up the tens of millions of dollars I've made and the millions of people I've impacted. But fortunately, didn't lose hope. I actually didn't see it that way. I didn't see it as, oh, I've only made $10,000. 00:39:21.845 --> 00:39:26.005 I saw it as this is working. It's it might take me a while, but I I could see 00:39:26.245 --> 00:39:27.925 a future where this was working. 00:39:28.565 --> 00:39:30.245 Because I wasn't chasing followers. 00:39:30.640 --> 00:39:38.240 I was chasing the dollars. And even though the dollars were low, I could see the activities that were creating revenue. I could see 00:39:39.280 --> 00:39:40.000 the 00:39:41.040 --> 00:39:49.015 skills that were leading to connecting with my people. And I was like, I can kinda do some math. And as this thing grows and as I get better at these skills, 00:39:49.175 --> 00:39:49.895 selling, 00:39:50.135 --> 00:39:51.495 offer creation, 00:39:52.455 --> 00:39:54.695 solving people's problems, messaging, 00:39:55.015 --> 00:39:56.375 I could see this really working. 00:39:58.390 --> 00:40:00.390 So the the thing you wanna protect 00:40:00.630 --> 00:40:03.510 is not only your energy, but you wanna protect your hope. 00:40:03.750 --> 00:40:05.430 You wanna protect your faith. 00:40:07.030 --> 00:40:11.795 When when the moment your faith dies, the moment your hope dies, you're gone. 00:40:12.915 --> 00:40:14.915 So you have to protect it at all times. 00:40:15.315 --> 00:40:18.995 That's one reason why you wanna be around people that lift your spirits, 00:40:19.155 --> 00:40:30.910 that don't shoot your dream down. I had to exit a lot of peer groups and friend groups, not like, sorry, we'll never talk again, but just subtly distance myself from people that were like, why are you doing this? This is never gonna work. 00:40:31.470 --> 00:40:32.910 Just be like us. 00:40:33.470 --> 00:40:44.735 That's functionally what they were saying. I was like, I can't I can't be around that. If I'm around that, I will start to believe that cause it is hard right now making only $800 a month working full time on this business teaching musicians 00:40:44.815 --> 00:40:46.015 how to record music. 00:40:46.175 --> 00:40:46.975 I had 00:40:47.295 --> 00:40:53.870 to be around people who would stir up my faith. Right? In Hebrews, it talks about don't neglect 00:40:54.270 --> 00:41:04.990 to meet together and stir stir up one another in love and and good works and encouragement. Like, we need to be around people that fuel us with faith. So if you need to, like, level up your peer group, by all means, do it. 00:41:05.725 --> 00:41:09.325 Whatever it takes. The the scoreboards out there right now, 00:41:09.645 --> 00:41:25.570 they're broken. They've been broken from the beginning. You are not the problem. You've never been the problem. It's the scoreboard system that's the problem. It's a game that everyone's trying to play that literally is a pointless game. Just opt out. Let everyone else play that game. Don't play that game. Just play the game that actually puts money in your pocket. Wealthy entrepreneurs 00:41:26.050 --> 00:41:27.490 keep a different score. 00:41:28.290 --> 00:41:31.010 They these are the metrics they chase. Revenue per client. 00:41:31.570 --> 00:41:32.770 They chase profit margin. 00:41:33.635 --> 00:41:35.475 Lifetime value, LTV. 00:41:35.635 --> 00:41:48.115 When I create a customer, how much is this customer worth to me over time? Not just how many one off hits can I get? Just run ads to a new person, new person, new person. Can I create a customer for life that brings lifetime value? You know who does this really well is Apple. 00:41:49.090 --> 00:41:59.250 Apple does this well. They don't wanna just sell you a product. They wanna make you a customer for life. So once they sell you a product, however you enter the Apple ecosphere, it might be your iPhone. It might be a Mac. It might be, 00:42:00.785 --> 00:42:07.185 you know, through the Apple Podcast app, and and then you might be, you know, whatever it is. Final Cut Pro, 00:42:07.745 --> 00:42:08.545 Logic, 00:42:08.545 --> 00:42:11.185 any of these Apple apps. However they get you in, 00:42:12.305 --> 00:42:30.240 they're so good at taking their customers and then assembling them together in in virtual events and and things and selling new products to old customers and selling old products to new customers and and and bringing you into the world where it's like, hey. If you like the iPod and the iPad, you're gonna love this. If you like your iPhone, you should you you would really love the iMac. 00:42:30.775 --> 00:42:32.055 You know, like, just 00:42:32.695 --> 00:42:46.750 they they they want you to be an Apple fanatic for life, and they do that by aweing you and and over delivering and showing you other cool things that can help your life and improve your life. They're not just trying to get one more customer. They want LTV. 00:42:46.830 --> 00:42:51.950 Profit margin is huge. You can make more money just by spending less and being more efficient in your business. 00:42:53.550 --> 00:42:58.670 And this is why I'm a huge fan of teaching how to create high ticket irresistible offers because 00:42:59.005 --> 00:43:02.125 you don't need a ton of clients to create a million dollar a year income. 00:43:02.765 --> 00:43:05.805 You just need a premium offer that's so irresistible, 00:43:06.045 --> 00:43:16.530 and you can maximize how much revenue you make per client. Because clients the right clients will pay you whatever they will pay you if you ever effectively ask them to pay you as long as you communicate the value correctly. 00:43:17.650 --> 00:43:22.130 I know those numbers are boring. They don't get a whole lot of attention or likes, but they they tell the truth. 00:43:22.530 --> 00:43:25.810 Those numbers, profit margin, LTV, revenue per client, 00:43:27.425 --> 00:43:28.225 MRR, 00:43:28.385 --> 00:43:38.465 monthly recurring revenue, those things are like the blood work that tell you the health of your business, not the mirror, which is my Instagram followers. So what is it for you? Is it the broke mindset? 00:43:39.020 --> 00:43:40.940 Is it the broke model? 00:43:41.500 --> 00:43:43.980 Or is it the broke metrics that you're chasing? 00:43:45.020 --> 00:43:46.460 When I was 26, 00:43:47.020 --> 00:43:49.340 when I was broke and on food stamps, 00:43:49.660 --> 00:43:51.820 all three were working against me simultaneously. 00:43:53.255 --> 00:43:56.935 I had a broke mindset. Couldn't imagine wealth being for me. 00:43:57.655 --> 00:43:59.255 I had a broke model. 00:43:59.495 --> 00:44:02.135 I thought the only model I knew was go to work and get paid. 00:44:03.815 --> 00:44:07.655 That's keeping people broke very well. And then I had broke metrics. 00:44:08.730 --> 00:44:15.610 I was looking at, am I making enough to cover rent? What kind of metric is that? Right? I wasn't even thinking big enough. 00:44:15.850 --> 00:44:19.210 Um, the great thing is that those mindsets, 00:44:19.210 --> 00:44:19.610 those 00:44:20.265 --> 00:44:23.545 things that are broken in you, again, it's software and they're not permanent. 00:44:24.025 --> 00:44:25.385 You can uninstall 00:44:25.465 --> 00:44:40.210 software and install new software whenever you want. Like, your computer can be pointless and bogged down with dumb old software or you can reboot it, refresh it, and have all new software, new programming, same computer, and it can be a whole different experience. That's you. You can change your programming. 00:44:40.370 --> 00:44:41.650 None of this is permanent. 00:44:42.130 --> 00:44:45.410 None of it's talent. None of it's timing. Like, just stop 00:44:45.410 --> 00:44:57.655 letting those be excuses for you. You can't control timing. You can't control the talent you have. You can control your mindset. You can control your business model. You can control what metrics you chase. So the moment I 00:44:57.815 --> 00:44:59.255 started changing these three things, 00:45:00.710 --> 00:45:03.270 wealth stopped being a dream and it became inevitable to me. 00:45:03.670 --> 00:45:14.950 And I know more wealth will continue to be inevitable. I'm not afraid of not having wealth because it will just continue to come to me because I I just think different. I have a better business model. I chase the right metrics, and the same is true for you. 00:45:16.155 --> 00:45:18.475 You don't have to earn your way to wealth slowly, 00:45:19.355 --> 00:45:22.395 the roundabout way. You don't have to hope for it, wish for it, 00:45:23.275 --> 00:45:26.955 fight for it, hustle for it. You can decide 00:45:27.290 --> 00:45:29.930 to upgrade the software today 00:45:29.930 --> 00:45:31.770 and let wealth become inevitable. 00:45:32.170 --> 00:45:37.690 I hope this helped you and blessed you today. If you're on YouTube, leave a comment. Let me know what part resonated with you the most, 00:45:38.250 --> 00:45:41.130 and I will see you on another episode real soon.