I hate to say this, but you are the victim of a gaslighting operation that is holding you back financially.
But you are also the gaslighter.
You see, gaslighting is simply manipulating
what someone accepts as true, and you have been doing this to yourself every single day of your life. We all have. It's an unavoidable feature of being human because we do not experience reality
as it is objectively.
No. We experience it as we are subjectively
because our brains do not passively receive objective reality. Instead, it constructs a simulation of it within our own minds. Now that simulation
is built across two simultaneous
processes.
The first process is attention.
You see your unconscious
or we can call your nonconscious
receives
11,000,000
bits of information every single second from your sensory channels,
and yet only 50 of those bits reach your conscious awareness.
Meaning 0.0001
of your total sensory data is what you're aware of. It's insane,
and everything else is filtered out by your reticular activating system before you ever notice it. The second process that constructs
your subjective experience is appraisal,
which is the meaning that your mind automatically
assigns whatever your attention has landed on. And so these two processes, attention and appraisal,
create and gaslight
your experiences
before a single conscious thought has formed.
But these two processes don't happen by themselves.
They are programmed by your beliefs. And so it's your beliefs that define in advance
what you notice, which is your attention,
and what it means to you, your appraisal,
completely constructing your subjective experience. And so the question really isn't whether to gaslight yourself,
Rather, it's what direction
to gaslight in. And I would suggest the answer to that question is in support of your financial goals or any goals for that matter. And to do this, understand that your beliefs, every single one of them, are built up by these references that you hold. Now a reference is simply a stored memory
that serves as or that your mind files as evidence for a certain belief.
And so we can go through intentional reference engineering
to shift beliefs and therefore gaslight you for the achievement of whatever outcomes it is you want.
And so this process of changing your references
takes place across three dimensions of time simultaneously.
The first dimension of time in which we can change our references and therefore beliefs is the past
through a process known as memory reconsolidation.
You see, every time you relive a past experience,
that memory becomes momentarily labeled or or rewritable.
And so through deliberate
modifications
of our attention, what we notice,
and our appraisal,
what it means to us, within our memory, we can actually change the meaning it has to us, and therefore,
the reference that it supports and the underlying belief that it shifts. This is incredibly powerful when it comes to limiting beliefs that stay and and get stuck because of these negative experiences.
You can reappraise them through memory reconsolidation.
The second dimension of time in which we can create references is the present moment through physical evidence.
Right? Every action you take is a vote for a belief, and so through intentional behavioral alignment,
you can stack references
for new empowering beliefs.
And this is the most potent form of reference because, of course, it's happening in in in real life, and it's the most relevant to who you are right now.
The third dimension of time is the future where you create psychological
evidence.
It's possible to create memories of the future, which is incredibly interesting,
through rehearsing
certain empowering experiences.
Now whether this is through affirmations or meditation or hypnosis,
it does not matter. As long as your psychological experience
is following these four categories, it is focused,
it is novel,
it is emotionally intense, and it is repeated. If it fits into those criteria,
that psychological
experience will be deemed as true by your nonconscious mind and therefore can be stacked as references
to build up empowering beliefs.
Ultimately,
you're gaslighting yourself
every single day of your life whether you like it or not. And so we're gonna add some intentionality
into this process through engineering your references across three dimensions of time to shift your beliefs and ultimately become unstoppable.
Godspeed.