WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:05.680 I hate to say this, but you are the victim of a gaslighting operation that is holding you back financially. 00:00:05.840 --> 00:00:08.320 But you are also the gaslighter. 00:00:08.480 --> 00:00:11.040 You see, gaslighting is simply manipulating 00:00:11.040 --> 00:00:22.835 what someone accepts as true, and you have been doing this to yourself every single day of your life. We all have. It's an unavoidable feature of being human because we do not experience reality 00:00:22.915 --> 00:00:24.355 as it is objectively. 00:00:24.790 --> 00:00:28.070 No. We experience it as we are subjectively 00:00:28.070 --> 00:00:38.335 because our brains do not passively receive objective reality. Instead, it constructs a simulation of it within our own minds. Now that simulation 00:00:38.415 --> 00:00:40.815 is built across two simultaneous 00:00:40.815 --> 00:00:41.615 processes. 00:00:41.775 --> 00:00:43.855 The first process is attention. 00:00:44.575 --> 00:00:46.175 You see your unconscious 00:00:46.255 --> 00:00:48.255 or we can call your nonconscious 00:00:48.255 --> 00:00:49.615 receives 00:00:49.150 --> 00:00:50.110 11,000,000 00:00:50.110 --> 00:00:54.350 bits of information every single second from your sensory channels, 00:00:54.670 --> 00:00:59.710 and yet only 50 of those bits reach your conscious awareness. 00:00:59.870 --> 00:01:04.830 Meaning 0.0001 00:01:03.405 --> 00:01:07.485 of your total sensory data is what you're aware of. It's insane, 00:01:07.885 --> 00:01:16.445 and everything else is filtered out by your reticular activating system before you ever notice it. The second process that constructs 00:01:16.120 --> 00:01:19.080 your subjective experience is appraisal, 00:01:19.240 --> 00:01:21.720 which is the meaning that your mind automatically 00:01:21.720 --> 00:01:27.320 assigns whatever your attention has landed on. And so these two processes, attention and appraisal, 00:01:27.640 --> 00:01:29.320 create and gaslight 00:01:29.605 --> 00:01:31.205 your experiences 00:01:31.285 --> 00:01:34.325 before a single conscious thought has formed. 00:01:34.485 --> 00:01:37.605 But these two processes don't happen by themselves. 00:01:38.005 --> 00:01:42.885 They are programmed by your beliefs. And so it's your beliefs that define in advance 00:01:43.210 --> 00:01:45.930 what you notice, which is your attention, 00:01:46.090 --> 00:01:48.570 and what it means to you, your appraisal, 00:01:48.730 --> 00:01:54.970 completely constructing your subjective experience. And so the question really isn't whether to gaslight yourself, 00:01:55.385 --> 00:01:57.225 Rather, it's what direction 00:01:57.225 --> 00:02:14.420 to gaslight in. And I would suggest the answer to that question is in support of your financial goals or any goals for that matter. And to do this, understand that your beliefs, every single one of them, are built up by these references that you hold. Now a reference is simply a stored memory 00:02:14.900 --> 00:02:19.940 that serves as or that your mind files as evidence for a certain belief. 00:02:20.375 --> 00:02:23.895 And so we can go through intentional reference engineering 00:02:23.895 --> 00:02:29.015 to shift beliefs and therefore gaslight you for the achievement of whatever outcomes it is you want. 00:02:29.575 --> 00:02:32.775 And so this process of changing your references 00:02:32.775 --> 00:02:36.540 takes place across three dimensions of time simultaneously. 00:02:36.860 --> 00:02:42.300 The first dimension of time in which we can change our references and therefore beliefs is the past 00:02:42.380 --> 00:02:45.100 through a process known as memory reconsolidation. 00:02:45.420 --> 00:02:47.980 You see, every time you relive a past experience, 00:02:48.785 --> 00:02:53.025 that memory becomes momentarily labeled or or rewritable. 00:02:53.825 --> 00:02:55.345 And so through deliberate 00:02:55.665 --> 00:02:56.785 modifications 00:02:56.785 --> 00:02:59.265 of our attention, what we notice, 00:02:59.505 --> 00:03:00.785 and our appraisal, 00:03:00.785 --> 00:03:06.900 what it means to us, within our memory, we can actually change the meaning it has to us, and therefore, 00:03:07.140 --> 00:03:18.260 the reference that it supports and the underlying belief that it shifts. This is incredibly powerful when it comes to limiting beliefs that stay and and get stuck because of these negative experiences. 00:03:18.715 --> 00:03:22.315 You can reappraise them through memory reconsolidation. 00:03:22.475 --> 00:03:28.555 The second dimension of time in which we can create references is the present moment through physical evidence. 00:03:28.715 --> 00:03:34.315 Right? Every action you take is a vote for a belief, and so through intentional behavioral alignment, 00:03:34.660 --> 00:03:36.500 you can stack references 00:03:36.500 --> 00:03:38.340 for new empowering beliefs. 00:03:38.500 --> 00:03:45.700 And this is the most potent form of reference because, of course, it's happening in in in real life, and it's the most relevant to who you are right now. 00:03:46.665 --> 00:03:51.065 The third dimension of time is the future where you create psychological 00:03:51.065 --> 00:03:51.865 evidence. 00:03:52.185 --> 00:03:56.745 It's possible to create memories of the future, which is incredibly interesting, 00:03:56.985 --> 00:03:58.025 through rehearsing 00:03:58.105 --> 00:04:00.185 certain empowering experiences. 00:04:00.520 --> 00:04:04.520 Now whether this is through affirmations or meditation or hypnosis, 00:04:04.680 --> 00:04:08.040 it does not matter. As long as your psychological experience 00:04:08.360 --> 00:04:11.800 is following these four categories, it is focused, 00:04:11.800 --> 00:04:12.840 it is novel, 00:04:12.840 --> 00:04:17.595 it is emotionally intense, and it is repeated. If it fits into those criteria, 00:04:17.915 --> 00:04:19.035 that psychological 00:04:19.115 --> 00:04:25.835 experience will be deemed as true by your nonconscious mind and therefore can be stacked as references 00:04:25.835 --> 00:04:27.435 to build up empowering beliefs. 00:04:27.960 --> 00:04:28.920 Ultimately, 00:04:29.320 --> 00:04:31.000 you're gaslighting yourself 00:04:31.320 --> 00:04:36.520 every single day of your life whether you like it or not. And so we're gonna add some intentionality 00:04:36.520 --> 00:04:44.853 into this process through engineering your references across three dimensions of time to shift your beliefs and ultimately become unstoppable. 00:04:44.933 --> 00:04:45.493 Godspeed.