What most people do their entire lives is they go for one or two or three years,
and the thing doesn't work out.
And they say, oh, this isn't for me. I'm gonna try something else. They go to the new thing. One, two, three years. It doesn't work out. They did repeat the process, and before you know it, you've done that six times and it's taken you, you know, uh, eighteen years of your life. You're 38 years old and you don't know what the fuck you're gonna do with your life. That is the danger of not pushing through
the monotony
of achieving anything. And there's not a single person on the planet.
I don't care if it's Elon Musk. I don't care if it's Bezos. I don't care if it's Michael Jordan.
I don't care if it's Tom Brady. It they're every single person. These people,
they are experts at doing the work diligently at a high level after the excitement fades. Yeah. That's where things are really produced. You're not even producing anything
before the excitement fades.
What is up, guys? It's Andy Pucella, and this is the show for the realists. Say goodbye to the lies, the fakeness, delusions of modern society, and welcome to mother reality. Guys, today, we have q and a f. That is where you submit the questions, and we give you the answers. Now you could submit your questions a bunch of different ways. DJ's gonna tell you how. Guys, you can email your questions in to askAndy@80forseller.com.
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You can get that entire program for free at episode two zero eight on the audio feed.
Again, that's two zero eight on the audio feed only,
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It has the entire live hard program and a whole bunch of other info that's not on that free episode.
Uh, if you're somebody who likes the ins and outs and the nuts and bolts and all the details, that's the that's the way to go. Uh, obviously, it's not free, but it is more in-depth.
Let's see. We are the biggest show in the world that doesn't run ads. That is a fact.
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The reason we don't run ads is because I
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every episode. If if it gives you value. Yeah. If you think it sucks, fucking Yeah. Don't share it. Yeah. But they never suck. They don't suck. Yeah. That's right, man. What's going on, dawg?
Nothing, dude. Yeah. I got a little you know, I don't I know we can't really talk about it, but I have some shit. I got some drink in my cup. Yeah. Gas.
It's my favorite drink we've had so far. Absolute
gas. Yeah.
Yep.
It's Let's just tell them what it is. No. I can't. No. No. I'm saying, like, we just beep it. You know what saying?
Dude, this is fucking gas. Yeah. It is. Like, this is my summer drink. No doubt. Like, drink. Like, not drink. It's a drink.
And
what do you call it, though? Because, like, you're used to calling it, like, purple and pink. Give me some of the red. This is pink. No. But it's clear.
What do you say?
Because you guys you're gonna be confused. Just the drink, dog. Yeah. Just simply a drink. Give me the drink. I want the drink. Alright. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. Then that now the yellow drink's good too. The yellow is good. I'll drink yellow juice all day long. Yeah.
That's what I mean. That one golden shower. That
that kinda sound like I'll drink urine, didn't
Well,
that enough of that. It's time to get better today. That is good, though, ain't it? Bro, it's fucking gas. Yeah. It's absolute gas. I know. Dude, fuck. I'm excited, dude. You know, just when I think, you know Yeah. It's there. Know what I'm saying? We're still learning. Yeah. We're still learning. Yeah. Dude, perspective is a powerful fucking thing, ain't it? Yeah. You know what I'm saying? Like like Yeah. You could see things
many different ways. It's the exact same thing. And I think that how you choose to see anything is really gonna be
responsible and dictate the quality of your life Yeah. Or the quality of your products. Yeah. Yeah. Or how shit your life is. Right. You're 100% there. Absolutely, man. Well, guys,
it's q and a f. We got three good ones for you, bro. Cool. Let's get better, guys.
Andy, question number one. Andy,
with an exclamation point.
Andy, I'm a 23 year old female medical student
with a very clear vision for my life.
I often feel misunderstood by my family and those around me because many people deemed the goals I've already set and achieved as impossible.
I was and still am often ridiculed with people telling me I won't make it anyway. My long term goal
is to immigrate, which is why I choose a field like medicine
that isn't tied to a specific country.
I'm already learning the language and immersing myself in the culture. I'm seeking advice on how to effectively build a foundation for long arc goals
that span a decade or more. My question is,
what is the best way to lay the groundwork for goals that are still far off? Ten years more in the future. How do you do that? Well,
look. First of all, goals
that took ten years ten years ago now take three years or four years because of the different technologies that we have. So it's hard to put a time frame
because of the evolution and the speed at which technology is changing in the world.
My ten year goals, when I started in 1999,
that was a much different
amount of ground to cover than a ten year goal now. Mhmm. And which is really great for for you guys. You know, we have a lot of talk about,
you know,
how hard it is to succeed and all these things, but it's always been hard. And
I would honestly trade places with any of you at this current time, even considering what's going on in the world, to be 20 years old again and have the ability to cover way more ground in a much shorter period of time. Yeah. So let's be careful about how much we think we can accomplish in ten years because it's probably a whole lot more than you think at this point in time because that ability to to accelerate
is only going to get more and more and more. So that's the first thing. The second thing is
in order to achieve any goals, you have to understand
that you are going into a battle. Okay? A metaphorical battle.
And
you cannot go into the battle
with
bad tools and bad weapons. If I if we were in a real battle and I sent you out there against people who were you know, had rocket launchers and machine guns and I gave you a little buck knife, you're gonna get killed. Alright? You're not gonna be successful no matter what you do, no matter how tough you are, no matter it doesn't matter. The tools that they have are better than the tools that you have, and for that reason, you don't have a chance.
So we have to understand that
our
mind and our body
is the tool. That is our weapon system. That is what allows us to accomplish the goals that we're going to accomplish.
And far too many people don't realize this. They don't realize that if you're not finely tuned and you're not training your mind and you're not holding yourself into the best possible condition,
you are in a situation where you are at a disadvantage against people who are. So
how should you look at this? Well, the number one reason that most people can't achieve their goals isn't because they don't know how to achieve them. It's because they lack the ability to adhere
to the steps of achieving the goal for a long enough period of time for those things to materialize.
So
you have to be able to cultivate
and understand
that the skills of
resilience
and fortitude
and grit and mental toughness
and the ability to endure and the ability to adhere,
these are the things
that, number one, give you the confidence to achieve these goals, but number two, give you the very practical ability to follow a plan
for much longer
than you might be excited about following it. Alright?
So this is the purpose of the live hard and the 75 hard lifestyle.
A lot of people don't understand
that 75 hard and live hard are to be completed every single year. This is a lifestyle. This is not a one hit it, fix it type thing.
These skill sets that I just mentioned,
grit, fortitude, mental toughness, discipline,
the ability to endure, resilience, all these things, they have to be trained
all the time because they're perishable. It's no different than
any other perishable skill. If you
wanna learn how to play the guitar and you get pretty decent at guitar and you stop for a year, you're not gonna be as good. If you stop for five years, you're gonna be starting over. These are things that you have to understand about your own tools, your your mind, your body.
So
learning that at a young age,
because you're very young,
and being able to be conscious of that and become aware of that and keep that finely tuned will give you the ability
to adhere to your plan
much longer at a much higher level than everybody else.
That is a huge advantage because 98%
of people,
they quit the minute that it becomes inconvenient.
The minute that something happens that they don't like or the minute that they get bored with it, they're saying, you know,
I've done a lot of reflection, and I've realized that this just isn't for me. Well, listen, dude. Nothing's gonna be for you because
every single thing that you could possibly choose on the entire planet to do
is going to get boring, and it's going to get monotonous, and it's going to get to a place where you don't feel like doing it. And if you don't have the ability to push through those times, you cannot get there. Yeah. If you start over every single time something starts to feel boring or monotonous or not exciting,
you're never gonna get to the place you're trying to get. And this is the mistake that most people make. Most people start a thing. They have this amazing energy,
quote, unquote, motivation.
They let that motivation drive them to the point where it's no longer exciting. The motivation fades. They lose the fuel to move down the path.
You have to operate on a on a different
understanding.
Is that the real progress in life is not made when you're motivated. The real progress in life is made when you'd rather do anything else and you still do what it is you're trying to do at a high level. That is the separator between those who do and those who don't.
And if you can develop that and you can keep that in mind and you can keep that finely tuned,
you will be at a massive advantage over everybody else. So that is the second thing. Understand.
You have to control what you control.
You have to always finely tune your mind. You have to keep your body in the best shape that it can be because these are your tools, your weapons that you're using
to fight the life resistance
that comes your way when you are an ambitious person.
Okay? And number three, um,
you need to get very specific. Okay?
I wanna do this, and you break it down backwards into daily critical tasks that have to be done every single day that will eventually lead you to there. And guess what?
I've built a piece of technology that actually does this for you. If you go to operator standard and get on the wait list, cause we're still in beta and we're still in the the MVP mode,
we are gonna open that up very soon.
Go get on the wait list for operator standard. Go on my website. Join the wait list.
And when this launches,
there's there's thousands of people in there already. They took advantage of jumping into it in, uh, December.
Mhmm.
And they've done an amazing job helping us find the holes and figure out what needs to be and how to do. But this technology is amazing because what it actually does
is you get to tell it what you're trying to do, and it breaks down the critical task all the way down to today
that helps you get to where you're trying to go. So you're not questioning
what you actually need to do. Yeah. It takes that vagueness out. That's just one of the things it does.
This this thing is like fucking Jarvis for winners. Okay?
I can't even tell you all the shit that's gonna come out with it and what we're working on, but that it does that now.
So
you can either do that yourself
or
you can get that and fucking
use that. Yep. And so those are the three things that you have to do. Let me ask you this, Andy, because I know like I said, man, we we talk, you know,
oftentimes outside of this, just life shit, you know. And I remember asking this was years ago, dude. I asked her. I'm like, you know, did you know that you would be where you are today?
And your answer because, you know, most people are like, oh, no. I didn't know. Just figured no. No. You're like, no. This is what I expected. That's right. Right? And and I think I guess my question is, and it may not even be the right word,
but in 1999,
19 year old Andy,
was there,
like, a level of, like, blind confidence
at that time? Like, you know what I'm saying? So it's so the answer is yes and no. Okay? Did I know we would be here
specifically?
Not exactly.
Did I know that I would be in a position where I was winning?
Yes. On an undeniable win? Undeniable winning. Yes. I expected that. That was not ever a doubt in my mind. I just kept moving, and that is, like, what faith is about. Right? Right. Like Yeah. I said blind confidence. Well, look, dude.
The work's always gonna come before the belief. Yeah. Alright?
People think that when they start out, they have to have this amazing belief
in their ability to accomplish things. And because they don't, they think there's something wrong with them, but they've got the the order of operations backwards. Okay?
The truth of the matter is is the only way that you start believing that you're actually gonna get there, like truly believing it. Like you said, at the at the beginning, you're like, I wanna be there. That's where I wanna be. I would like to be there. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And and because people lack confidence,
goes back to the live hard program,
they they they say, man, I don't really believe that. And what happens is that freezes them up in the beginning. And they're not realizing
that you have to go and you have to do some of the work, and you've gotta do the work for a considerable amount of time. Not a month, not three months, not six months, not a year. We're talking years. Okay?
And, eventually,
you get to a point where it starts to produce results, and you're like, oh, shit. Okay. This makes sense. I work.
I see some results. I get some more belief. Okay? And when that cycle happens two or three times where you start to really learn that your inputs equal a certain output,
now confidence isn't a problem because you understand what the game is about. Yeah. So
the the reality is is you have to do the work blindly
the best that you can. And by the way, we have incredible tools like we talked about in the operator standard
that will help you
understand the things you should do when you may not know what to do. And as long as you do them and then they start to produce results, you'd learn that confidence, and that's where the expectation comes in. Yeah. So once you get to a point where you've, you know, you've put the ingredients in, you've baked the cake, the cake comes out as pretty good. You've put the ingredients in, you baked another cake, the cake comes out pretty good. You put the ingredients. You you bake another cake. The cake comes out better.
And you continue that process.
It doesn't take that long before you figure out, like, fuck, dude. I can do this. Mhmm. And this is great. So now you know what it takes to actually move forward, and you're in a position to move forward with confidence, understanding
that
you now expect
to be successful. You're not hoping or wishing or
doubting it. Right? You understand that if I put this work in, it will produce this result. And that's a very
freeing
feeling because it removes the things like doubt. It removes the things like uncertainty.
It removes the lack of confidence. And now you understand that is is simply inputs and outputs.
And that's what we have to understand. Dude, expecting
to win
is completely different than hoping to win. Yeah. Okay? Hoping to win is,
man,
you know,
maybe if I do some of this work, a a lucky break will happen. I'll meet someone. Something will happen. People will like it. I'll go viral. I'll do this. I'll do that. That's hope.
Expecting is I'm going to do whatever the fuck it takes no matter what to produce this result. And that result is going to fucking happen. And I don't give a shit if the fucking world ends. That result is still gonna fucking happen. That's a different thing. Okay? Totally different thing. And the only people who actually win are the people who eventually get to a point where they expect it. But you've gotta build that part by doing the work,
not really understanding
until you see the results a few times to gain that confidence of expectation.
Yeah. Yeah. It's Yeah. Like it's like the hockey stick you talk about. You're gonna go for a minute without seeing anything. No no fruits at all. Yeah. Yeah. Most people will quit. I mean, dude, look, man.
Most people are quitting their goal in six months. Yeah. Like, nothing happens in six months.
Okay? And and that was not that's not a new thing, by the way. I mean, we could blame the Internet and say, oh, yeah. It's all these influencers. Time to change it. It it
it's more in your face now. But even when you were younger, even when I I was younger, that's the same way people operated. Okay? They operated from a place of relying completely on their motivation
and not on
pushing past the point where the motivation fades. Yeah. Or
working until something bad happens and then saying, oh, yeah. Well, something bad happened to me, and that's the story they tell for their whole life.
You have to keep going through those things. And if you don't, you just have to accept that you're not gonna ever become what it is you're gonna become. What most people do their entire lives is they go for one or two or three years,
and the thing doesn't work out.
And they say, oh, this isn't for me. I'm gonna try something else. They go to the new thing. One, two, three years, it doesn't work out. They did repeat the process, and before you know it, you've done that six times, and it's taken you fucking, you know, uh, eighteen years of your life. You're 38 years old, and you don't know what the fuck you're gonna do with your life. That is the danger of not pushing through
the monotony
of achieving anything. And there's not a single person on the planet I don't care if it's Elon Musk. I don't care if it's Bezos. I don't care if it's Michael Jordan.
I don't care if it's Tom Brady. It they're every single person, these people,
they are experts at doing the work
diligently at a high level
after
the excitement fades. Yeah. That's where things are really produced. You're not even producing anything
before the excitement fades. Like
Damn. Yeah. Brother, that's crazy to think about, dude. Yeah. That's crazy. Yeah. Yeah. Well, once the new car smell wears off, what are you doing then? Oh, I'm gonna get a new car. That's right. You know? That's right. Yeah.
Dude, that's wild, man. That's how people think. Fuck, man. I love it, man. Let's keep moving, guys. Uh, guys, Andy, question number two.
Andy, I own a small roofing company in Iowa.
For the first few years, it was exciting because everything felt like growth. I've hired eight more guys full time.
We are making more money than we ever have
and are backed up almost four months, which is huge for us. Um, but lately, the pressure has started feeling different. Now I've got employees with families depending on these paychecks,
customers are trusting us with big money, and mistakes cost way more than they used to.
I still want to grow,
but sometimes
I honestly miss when it was smaller and simpler.
How did you handle that place realizing that your decisions affect a lot more than just you now?
I certainly leaned into it. I didn't run away from it. You know, for me, that happened about when I was
thirteen or fourteen years into my business.
You can only go
so far when it's about you. Okay? When when your purpose is about you
and you go out and you make enough money and you're able to, you know, pay your bills and, you know, maybe you have a couple toys and you're not in a financial position of stress the way that you were,
comfort starts to set in. And when comfort starts to set in,
that's when things get real dangerous. Because most of the time when comfort sets in, people stop going and doing the things that got them to that point. And while all of their competitors are still doing those things, and then they end up losing, and they can't figure out why they lost because they're like, well,
you know, I was doing good, but now things are not good. Well, yeah, the reason things aren't good is because you're playing a game that runs on a sliding scale. You are actually competing against other human beings. And when the when everybody else is moving forward and you stand still,
they're gonna pass you. It's no different than getting way ahead in a marathon and then deciding to pull out your lawn chair and say, man, you know what? I'm so far ahead. This is great. I'm at mile 19. I'm gonna chill. I'm gonna and then eventually, they pass you up. And then you you can't catch them because you have to start the momentum over again. Yeah. So
so you have to understand that comfort is super dangerous.
And the way you should be looking at this is this is a reignition
of your
responsibilities
that will cause you to continue to progress, learn,
work, grow,
and create
at a bigger scale level. What you should be doing right now by the way, the four month wait list is not good, just so you know. Yeah. Okay? No. You think that's good for you. Where you perspective. Good. It's perspective. You know why that's not good? Because those people that are made waiting for four months might
hire someone that can do it tomorrow. Mhmm. Okay? So while you think it's good because we got all this business on the books, you're thinking about yourself. You're not thinking about your employees.
And, dude, if you're an ethical business owner, you have to understand that you have a responsibility for the people who have bet on you for their livelihoods.
Those men and those women have bet on you for their livelihoods. Understand
that. And if you can't take that seriously,
not only will you not win, you're kind of a shit shitty owner. Not even kinda. You are. Yeah. Alright?
So this is a point in time where
your
intent
naturally moves, and this happens to all entrepreneurs who scale. Okay?
It naturally moves from
what I need to do for me to a point where I have to grow because these people are betting on me, and they have families, and they have homes, and they have obligations.
And if I don't grow the business,
they're not gonna be able to pay those things. And that's a different kind of pressure. It's kinda like I imagine,
like, when people have children and it's all about themselves. And then all of a sudden, there's this little fucking sack of meat that comes out, and you're like, holy shit, dude. If I don't do it, this kid's gonna fucking starve. Yeah. Okay. Now I've never experienced it in that way, but I imagine that's what it feels like. A 100%. Okay? Yeah. That's what I've been told. Yeah.
But that same responsibility
and obligation should be
put on
your employees as well. Okay? Because, like, dude, these people are betting on you, man. They're betting their lives. They're betting their families. They're betting their futures on you.
And if you sit there because you have,
you know, a couple bucks in the bank, you're a piece of shit. That's the truth. Okay? Because they're betting on you. You have to understand that. They are betting on you.
Okay? And you a lot of people like to bitch. Nobody believes in me. Nobody what about all those employees that show up every day? Yeah. They fucking believe in you. That's right. Otherwise, they wouldn't fucking be there. Okay? So you well, how you should be looking at this now is to change the responsibility
and the intent from yourself to them. Alright? And when you can do that and then you expand
the vision of your growth to
include their hopes and dreams and what they're trying to accomplish underneath that umbrella,
now you start to create a really great company that solves the problem of overwhelm that you're currently experiencing.
When you have people that understand
that they're
that they can actually achieve
what they're trying to. They can make enough money. They can build what they want. They can live in a house they want. They could drive the car they want. They can do these things in your system.
Now you're in a situation where they are willing to help you,
uh, in a very proactive way to handle the minutiae and the overwhelm that comes with scaling. So
your choices are this.
Yeah. You could reminisce about the good old days, but remember, in the good old days, you were fucking broke. Okay? You didn't have the bass boat. You didn't have the Corvette. You didn't have the Escalade. You didn't have a nice house.
You were starving,
and you had to watch what the fuck you ordered at the restaurant. See, everybody likes to reminisce about the good old days, but they forget those things. Yeah. Okay? So
let's be real about what you're talking about. And I would remove this idea from your head because there is a metaphysical, quantaphysical element
to what you desire in your brain that the universe and God will provide for you. So if you start to think, man, I really would just like to live a simple life and all this shit, God's gonna find a way to deliver that to you, and you may not like the way he delivers it. Yeah. So
you need to be thinking about the other people. You need to be thinking about their well-being. And when you can go from thinking about you to thinking about them, it unlocks a whole new level in entrepreneurs.
Yeah. Well, dude, and and, like, again, we've we've talked about this before, man. It's like, you know, like, dude, you you said all like, you said, like, man, I I miss the store days. I I do miss it, but my job, my role is different now. It's changed. It's evolved. You know I'm saying? How many different hats have you worn? All of them. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. HR, fuck. Like Dude, all of them. I packed boxes. Dude, I remember whenever we we we first started shipping out, dude.
At 04:00 in the afternoon,
we would go out and literally pack the boxes.
Okay? Before that, when it was just me and Chris, we would print shit out on a printer, and there'd be, like, five or six boxes, and we would pack them and order them. I mean, I've done everything here. Yeah. Everything from sweeping the floors to being the CEO to being chairman of the board. Like, ever everything. Everything. I've done everything. Yeah. Okay? You gotta you gotta get comfortable in what that role is now. Yes. And that role will evolve. And and when you get a new role, that's gonna come with different responsibilities.
The reason that I like the, quote, unquote, good old days was because I got to deal more with customers face to face.
That's not reality for me anymore. Not because it was easier. No. That's I just enjoyed it. Yeah. So I find other ways to do that. For example, how I do that now is instead of dealing with customers face to face, I will walk the floors, and I will talk to the people, and I will talk to them, and I will help them with what they are doing. And I get that same sort of reward in a different way. Yeah. So Yeah. Yeah, man. Look,
dude. This is very simple.
Stop thinking about yourself. Start understanding that you have a massive responsibility to take care of your employees,
and that little fire that you feel like is getting a little,
you know, small is gonna reignite in a way that's much bigger than it ever was. Because there's one it's one thing to worry about yourself. Okay? Like, I know how to survive
being broke. Alright?
It's
I don't ever wanna go back there. But the reality is is if I had to, I could fucking do it, and it wouldn't it wouldn't be a deal.
When I think
of
my employees
in any company that I'm involved in or own, and I think about them having the obligation of children, and I think about their bills, and I think about the things that they have.
These are serious obligations, dude. And I always think like, fuck, what what's going to happen if if they lose their job? Mhmm. Like, I
I hate that. I don't want I don't want that to happen. Yeah. And and if I'm being honest,
sometimes I care about that too much, which causes me to hang on to employees longer than I should. Oh, that's a whole Yeah. Motherfucking conversation. Because, dude, like, I am You got a good heart. I do. And sometimes it's fucked me, but the
the overall
result is still much better because of it. Yeah.
I love it, man.
Love it, guys. Andy, let's get to our third and final question.
Guys, Andy, question number three.
Andy, I think I spent most of my early twenties
subconsciously
waiting for someone to point me in the right direction.
A mentor, an opportunity,
a break, something. Now I'm 30,
and I'm realizing
nobody's
coming.
No shit.
Andy, if if I want a different life, it's on me to build it. Yep. But was there a moment for you where that fully clicked? And once it did, how did you change the way you approach life? How did you move differently?
Well,
look.
I started when I was 19.
I didn't have any money. We had $12,000
that we used to pay the rent for our store
for an entire year because nobody would rent to us because we didn't have credit,
and we didn't have anything that would make them wanna rent to us. So then we had to finance the rest of everything on the credit cards, which put pressure on us and put debt on us.
So I didn't have a choice.
Alright? I had to go.
And
for a long time,
we had smaller competitors
who
even at that level, you know, they're they came from a rich family. They had an inheritance. They had an investor. They had something.
And
I used to be really bitter about that.
I used to get really mad about it. The first especially the first
three or four years where, like, literally, we weren't making any money.
It would really irritate me. I was like, why the fuck? You know, we gotta compete against all these people who have all this and that and this and this and this.
But what I started to realize
is that
because those people had those resources,
they weren't learning the lessons that they needed to learn that made them effective.
And so by year four, five, six,
I was being able to outmaneuver them, like, very easily,
and
they couldn't figure out why. Well, the reason why was because I started with nothing and I had to figure it out. And they started with the safety net, and they didn't have to figure it out. They could always go to just writing a check or going back to the investor or going to their trust fund or whatever they had to do. So I started to understand that I was learning these skills that they didn't learn. By year ten, I had put most of these people out of business. Okay?
So
I went through that in a little bit different way,
but I did realize from the very beginning
that it was on me and nobody else.
Like, nobody was going to
come and do any of the shit for us. Like,
it wasn't even
it it wasn't even, like, something that I really thought about. Was I bitter that other people had better advantages than me? Yeah. Until I understood
that I was the one with the advantage. Because
people who come with resources and they come with safety nets and they come those people never learn how to fucking fight. It's just like people
who
complain about how hard it was growing up. And they say, well, I I I grew up here, and I grew up with the trailer, and I did this, and I come from the hood, and nobody gives a fuck about me.
Do you understand
how big of a fucking advantage that actually is? Because you learn the skill of survival and fighting at a very young age. But because your perspective
is
based upon what people try to say is,
you know, oh, that person got there because they had this, or that person was lucky, or that's that's what we hear our whole lives. We hear from other people around us our whole lives that literally everybody
else that's made it did so because they had some sort of advantage that you
don't have.
That's not the way it really works. The way it really works is is that the people who build real shit, they actually come from the hardest situations
early on in life because they had to learn how to survive and provide for themselves
in a way that these other people didn't. You know? They learned how to fight young. And
when you come from that and you look at it at the right perspective, which is what I'm telling you now,
you are at a tremendous advantage over everybody else. Okay? But most people can't break free of that victim mindset,
and they don't understand the reality
that all of these people that they look at, the reason they have all these crazy stories about where they come from isn't because they make them up after they get there. It's because
the people who had to go through the hardest shit are the people that are equipped to actually fight the battle of entrepreneurship.
So this whole idea
that is in society that is propagated
by a bunch of fucking people who are victim mindset losers
that everybody who's done everything is somehow, you know,
grew up with a fucking golden spoon in their mouth is total bullshit.
Alright? The best operators in the world came from the hardest situations. Every single operator that I know that's built anything relevant,
those people came from shit. Mhmm. Okay?
So if you come from shit,
you should instead of like saying, oh, I come from all this bad stuff and I got PTSD
t two type of c from fuck from when I grew up. Like, motherfucker, use that shit. Yeah. Okay?
Lean into that. Understand that you are equipped with a set of skills that these other people don't have.
And when you apply those skills and they continue to go down the path,
eventually you get to a point
where all of the people with the quote, unquote advantages
have fallen off because
they have a backup plan. They have comfort. They don't have to succeed.
Otherwise,
you know, they could go they have the ability to go back to mom and dad or go back and say, oh, I would try this other thing or do this other thing or do this other thing. That's that's something you don't have, and that's a blessing. That's not Yeah. That's not a handicap.
And so,
you know,
I don't know if that really answers your question about, like, how do I
realize that nobody's coming. Uh, the the only thing you gotta realize is that, like, that's the that's what it is. Like Yeah. Nobody's coming, bro. People have their own lives
in mind. They are worried about themselves.
This is why, like, all you fuckers that think everybody's talking about you all the time, bro. Bro, they're talking about you in a passing conversation one time. Their your your ego's so big. You think people just obsess over what you're doing? Like, fuck that. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? Like, they're worried about themselves.
So go ahead. No. I mean, you know, you like, one of the things that I've always, like, had a hard time understanding is, like, that that whole thing of, like, oh, everybody else has got it, and I don't have it's like, well, first, like, you don't even know if they actually do have an advantage. Like, you don't know because you're just seeing the end result, not the not the work that went into that. Right. That's one. But then two,
who gives a shit? It ain't you. It's not your situation. Right. Right. You know what I'm saying? It's like Coulda,
shoulda, woulda been, coulda been, hope hope hope it was too fucking bad.
Okay? It ain't. It just ain't. It is what it is. Now what? And if you that's right. That's right. Dude. You have to be dedicated
to producing the end result.
You have to be obsessed with it, dude. Like, that's the thing. It's like, you know, like these these idiots on the Internet who put out all this shit about balance and got a fucking work life there's no work life balance as an entrepreneur. That's not real, especially when you're get getting it going. It's not a real fucking thing. Okay? And anybody who says different hasn't built anything. You know, the whole problem with the Internet is it gave a voice to people who can talk real well and say nothing. Right? So
that's the entire problem with the Internet. How many of these people saying, oh, you're gonna have work life balance have actually built anything significant?
Okay? I promise you, they did not have work life balance
in the first five to ten years. They didn't have it. You have to be obsessed, bro. That's the level of competition because you have to understand other people are obsessed. There are people that will eat a bowl of glass and eat a pile of shit every single day for as long as it takes to get where the fuck they wanna go. And if you're not one of them, they're gonna beat you. That's it. That is reality.
So
I had this kid met messaging me the other day and, like, I was showing something on my Instagram.
Oh, I know what it was. I was showing the startup of my Carrera GT, and he could see all the other cars through the windshield. Mhmm. And he messaged me, and he's like,
dude, I'm so sick of being where I'm at. Like, honestly,
how do I acquire this level of wealth? Like, how do I do it?
And I'm like, dude, how old are you? He's like, 22. I'm like, perfect. You're the perfect age.
You have to become
you have to become so obsessed
with producing the outcome
that literally nothing else
fucking matters.
Nothing.
And people will say, oh, that's selfish. That's wrong. It is what the fuck it is. Yeah. That's what it takes. Okay? If you are not obsessed with producing that outcome,
especially in the beginning, you're gonna get eaten alive. You're gonna get eaten
the fuck alive.
And it doesn't matter what Joe Schmo therapist
or, you know, dude who never built anything on the Internet who's doing shit for likes, shares, views. Remember, half the shit on the Internet is
pacifying victim minded bullshit
that people post
to make people feel better about them not doing the thing that they're supposed to do. Okay? Learn to take a step back and watch people's content.
A lot of the things that are being said are not said because they're the truth.
They're said
because it makes the majority of the market, which is people who are not going to follow through,
feel much better about not following through. Mhmm. Okay? It is it is prop it is giving them permission
to stay where they are, and that's why it gets the like, shares, views. That's why when you see a clip of me saying what I just said, people are like, oh, well, are you happy? Yeah, motherfucker. I actually am happy. I walk into my garage every day and get to pick out a car like you pick out your fucking shoes.
Okay? It's cool as fuck. I get to do whatever I want. If I wanna go to fucking Vegas today, I'd call up and there'll be an airplane in thirty fucking minutes and I can go there. I can do whatever the fuck I want anytime I want. If one of my family members or one of my friends or somebody I know,
her house is about to get foreclosed on,
I could fix that. Okay? If someone gets cancer, I could fucking pay for that, which I've done all those things.
Okay? If our city gets hit by a tornado,
I can fucking contribute to that. I can make differences because
and those things make me happy. Yeah. So
this whole idea
of
you you either get to be rich or you get to be happy
is it's not either or, dude. It's how you get rich and what value system you have and what you do with the money that allows you to figure out what you're gonna do when you be happy. People have this lie in their mind. You know? Because I tell you, this is true too.
After a while, when you own all the material shit, it stops
mattering.
Like,
when I walk into my garage, you know this because you've been there, and we'd bring someone, even if they're famous, into the garage who's been around it. They're like, holy
shit. Mhmm. To me,
I don't even notice it. Yeah. Like, I'm walking in. I'm like, this is my life. This is what I do. Alright?
I don't give a fuck about like, I know you guys see me post all the cars and shit. I'm posting that for fucking 18 year old, 19 year old, 20 year old Andy to say, hey, man. Look what the fuck you can do. How do I get that? Right.
This
this idea that you can buy all this shit, it's gonna make you happy. No. That's not that's not true. But it gives you
far more
ability to make impact
on your friends, your family, your community,
which makes you really happy.
Okay? So,
you know, you can't really listen to someone who says,
oh, are you yeah. He's got all this shit, but is he happy?
Uh, well, they don't know because they never had anything. Okay?
You never hear someone
who has made a bunch of money and worked their fucking ass off and
worked for thirty years and build this incredible life. And then they say, oh, man. I wish I hadn't done that. Yeah. That's not what the you never hear them say that. That's right. You only hear people who haven't done motherfucking thing say that. And then you have these feel good
predators on the Internet
who could by the way, they understand
what they're doing. Okay? This is why I call them predators.
They know
and are aware
that most of their market is people who are going to not do the thing.
So they curtail their content
to make peep people feel great about not expanding
their own human potential, which is ultimately the entire goal of being on this fucking planet. Listen, motherfuckers.
These people are handicapping you, and not a single one of them has made any money outside of the the other
outside of anything other than making people feel like it's okay to just be right where they are. And, dude, the reality is and then you have the Christians,
I am one, who don't understand Christianity
and think that being
a very small little, you know, poor little me is somehow biblically the way you should be. The bible actually talks about you not
wasting
your fucking talents
to become who it is you're supposed to become. God gives you gifts. He gives you something inside of you that is meant for you to pull out,
develop,
and give to the world, and there's no
favor
in in God's eyes to not use those things. It talks about it in the bible. So this whole idea
of there's some sort of moral high ground of wasting your life being a nothing is a complete lie,
and it is totally
exploited
by these feel good predators
who know that their audience is a bunch of fucking victims.
And if they say something like,
hey.
You have to be obsessed with your goals, and you have to, like, fucking basically for a period of time give up everything else.
They know that those people don't wanna hear that. They wanna hear what they wanna fucking hear. It makes them feel good about how they are now. And that's that's why these people do that. They know. They fucking know what they're doing. That's the thing you don't understand. You know how I know they know what they're doing? Because I know these people and they've told me that and they said things like that. Okay? And it's disgusting
shit.
Imagine
Oh, that's yeah. Bro, imagine
your whole business
as being some sort of therapist or some sort of influencer or some sort of author,
and your whole business plan is to make people feel good about being way less than what they could be because you know that's what's gonna sell shit for you.
That is fucking evil shit.
That is predatory
shit,
And that is what you are listening to. And then furthermore,
the rest of the people
that post all this content
about,
you know, oh, you gotta have this and this and this and listen, man.
They've never done anything.
They don't know.
Okay? People are good talkers.
They're not just because they can get on a microphone and get in front of an interview and sound real smart doesn't mean they fucking know what the fuck they're talking about.
Okay? There's these things. I don't know if you know them. They're called it's called acting.
Okay?
Like,
you know Yeah. There's this other thing called lying.
Right?
And just because someone like, do you ever notice that the people who who seem to be the nicest are always the ones that lie the most? Yeah. No shit. Okay? Like
How about they're so nice? Yeah. Right. And then we find out all this fucked up shit. I'm gonna tell you right now, I'm totally fucked up. Okay?
So I don't ever pretend to not be, but I'm gonna tell you this.
I know what I know about winning. And if you're not obsessed with winning and you don't realize that no one's fucking coming, you're not gonna get fucking anywhere. I love it, dude. I love it, man. Guys, Andy, dawg. That's a hell of a way to start a week, man. Alright, guys. Let's go out. Let's get better. We'll see you tomorrow on CTI. Do not be a hoe. Share the show.