Does the thought of finding your niche drive you mad? What if I told you that the thing that drives you mad, that's actually your niche? In this video, I'm going to give you a completely different way to look at how to determine your niche, not the follow your passion advice you've already tried, something that actually holds up when things get hard. And by the end of this video, you'll know which niche to move forward with without second guessing it. Because after two years of helping people find their niche on YouTube, I've come to realize that the standard ways of doing it, such as the three p's, finding the gap in the market and filling it, or you are your niche, even though they are great starting points and ones I have taught myself on this channel in my courses, they just don't protect you from the inevitable. And the inevitable is quitting, pivoting, stopping, starting.
Because somewhere along the way, you realize you chose the wrong niche for you. So I'm going to show you something different today. And hey there. If you're new here, I'm Alexis Saranoia. I built a consulting business with YouTube that surpassed $250,000
in less than two years. I don't just help you find your niche, I help you turn it into a sustainable income with YouTube. And here's what happens when you get this wrong. Let's look at a few different scenarios, and you might find yourself in one of them. Maybe you're the person who pivots
constantly.
You started a channel about productivity, then you switch to mindset, then to business, then back to productivity with a slightly different angle. And every time you restart, you lose momentum, you lose subscribers, you lose trust, and you have to begin all over again. It's exhausting.
And the sneaky thing about this scenario is that you probably don't even fully see yourself doing it. Or maybe you're the one who just faded away. You started strong. You were excited. You were showing up. And then slowly, the video frequency got less and less. The energy dropped. And one day, you just stopped. Nothing dramatic. No big announcement. You just quietly disappeared from your channel. Because the passion ran out of fuel, and there was nothing deeper underneath it to keep you going. Or maybe you actually grew and somehow that almost made it worse because you built an audience around the wrong thing. You attracted people you can't help or don't wanna help or who will never buy anything from you. And now you're stuck performing for an audience that doesn't fit and you have no idea how to course correct without burning everything down.
Or maybe you think you have a niche, but what you actually have is a theme. Midlife reinvention sounds like a niche, but then one video is about boundaries, another one is about menopause, another one is about your kids going off to college. There's no through line.
No clear transformation is being promised. So your channel looks like a lifestyle blog, and the viewer lands on it and thinks, okay. But what is this actually for? Who is this actually helping? And they leave. Not because your content is bad, but because nothing is pulling them in a specific direction.
Or, and this one's really common, maybe you're the one who never started at all. You're still sitting with a list of five possible niches, going back and forth, waiting to feel certain before you commit. And the channel you were supposed to build two years ago still doesn't exist. If any of these speak to you, you're in the right video. So many people get their niche wrong because first, they go too broad. They pick a topic so wide that it could mean anything to anyone, mindset,
wellness, business, health, personal development.
And broad feels safe because it keeps all the options open. But broad is actually the riskiest move you can make on YouTube because when your channel is for everyone, it's compelling to no one. Nobody watches a video thinking, this was made for someone vaguely like me. Sounds great.
And second, people might pick their niche with their wallet instead of their gut. They research what's trending, what's monetizable,
what most people seem to be making money from, and then they build their channel around that. And I get it. We all need to make money. But if the only thing connecting you to your niche is the potential income, the moment that income doesn't come fast enough, and it won't at the beginning, you have absolutely no reason to keep going. You can't fake that you care for long about a topic when you are only doing it for the money. And people can feel that. And third, suffering with shiny object syndrome is another problem. A new trend appears, a new format takes off, someone in a completely different niche blows up, and suddenly, you're pivoting your entire channel to chase whatever just worked for someone else. And you're never building momentum because momentum requires staying in one place long enough for it to accumulate. All three of these mistakes have the same root cause. People are picking niches based on what's outside them, the market, the money, the trends, instead of what's inside them, the thing that genuinely bothers them, the problem they keep coming back to no matter what. That's why I'm still standing, still building a channel with life, drama, throwing punches me left and right, teenage angst in the house, hello, toddlers going through their do it myself phase, no sleep, videos that tank, traversing entrepreneurship,
marriage, and child raising all at the same time. It's chaos.
But underneath all of it, underneath the YouTube strategy I teach, what I actually can't stop thinking about is this. People don't see their own potential. They're sitting on something so valuable and they can't even see it. And that breaks my heart every single time. Because at the heart of everything I do is one thing. I believe in people enough when they don't yet believe in themselves.
I show it by doing it myself, trusting the process out loud on this channel, the good, the bad, everything in between. That's the only way I know how to lead. And that's exactly why I care so much about this conversation.
Because I've watched too many people sit on something genuinely valuable and never share it with the world. Not because they weren't capable, but because they never found the thing they cared about deeply enough to fight for it. That's what we're going to find today. I was listening to Mark
Manson.
You might know him from The Subtle Art of Not Giving an F. And I loved what he said about happiness. He said happiness is problem solving, that we are at our most alive, our most engaged, our most fulfilled when we are working on a problem that matters to us. And I agree 100%.
And that's what's missing from every niche conversation
I've ever had outside of my one to one program.
Because when you work one to one with someone, you get to this depth.
Right? The conversations we have expose that passion driven by something deeper, something my clients see wrong with the world and want to help fix. But it's not a discussion happening in the generic, here's how to find your niche videos. So we are going deep today as if you were my client. Now to preface this, on my channel, I talk about niching down from the angle of using your client avatar to discover it. In other words, determining what is a specific problem you solve on your channel for a specific person using your specific methodology,
product, or service, framework, etcetera. And your niche is basically that transformation
of getting them from the problem to the solution with your idea.
But I wanna go deeper, and I wanna do it the way I do it with my clients.
Because the way we've been asking it is only part of the story. We've been asking from the inside out. What do I love? What am I good at? What will make me money? And then working backwards to find a problem to match. All of those questions point inward at you, at your feelings, at your skills. But the right question is outward.
What problem do I see in the world that I cannot look away from? What is that thing that bothers you at the level that goes beyond interest,
that genuinely disturbs you, that you find yourself thinking about unprompted, that you keep coming back to no matter what else you try.
It sounds like passion, but it's different. It goes deeper. It's like reading what's written in your DNA or on your heart. If your heart could speak unfiltered,
it would tell you this thing that I'm speaking about. It needs to be an obsession
because obsession is a completely different fuel. And honestly, it's the only kind that allows you to win on YouTube long term. Passion feels great when things are going well. Obsession keeps you going when they're not. Passion is about you feeling good. Obsession is about something outside of you being wrong and you being the person who refuses to let it stay that way. So here's the reframe. Your niche isn't a topic. It's not a demographic.
It's not a content category.
It's the problem you can't stop seeing as broken and the transformation you believe is possible on the other side of it. So instead of, I love reading so much, I'm going to make a channel about reading.
An obsession sounds more like, reading is a dying art in a digital world, and the part of the brain it activates is critical for how we think, feel, and connect with others. And I am deeply committed to bringing people back to books.
That's a mission. That's something worth fighting for. And once you find that, everything else gets easier, the content, the positioning, the consistency,
because you're no longer showing up for views anymore. And what I'm about to say is the main point of this video, so please listen. You're showing up because the problem still exists and you have something to say about it. That's the difference. So let's make this more concrete. Because right now, this might sound like a nice idea, but I want it to feel like an undeniable truth for you. So meet Axel.
Axel does what most people do in finding his niche. He runs through the three p's, passion, proficiency, profitability.
And he finds where those three intersect and boom, decides on his niche. He loves photography. There's his passion. He's good at photography. There's his proficiency. And he thinks he could sell presets and tutorials online in the photography realm. There's profitability.
All the three p boxes are checked off. He starts his channel, for a while, it's great. The early memento feels like confirmation, views are coming in, subscribers are growing, he's excited, but then it slows. He's stuck at a few 100 subscribers and nothing's growing. Views drop, the comments dry up, so he posts less, then he stops, then he gets inspired again and he comes back, posts a few more videos. But the views are still low, and the motivation disappears just as fast as it came. Stop. Start. Stop. Start. Sound familiar?
Here's what nobody knew about Axel. Three years ago, he watched his daughter disappear,
not all at once, slowly, the way a light dims before it goes out completely. She was 12 when she got her first phone. She was funny, confident, opinionated,
the kind of kid who walked into a room and owned it without even trying. Within eighteen months, he barely recognized her. She stopped eating properly. She stopped talking. She would spend hours scrolling, comparing, shrinking. He'd catch her staring at herself in the mirror with a look he'd never seen on her eyes before and a look that said, I'm not enough. He didn't know what to do. He took the phone away. She fell apart. He gave it back. She fell apart differently. He tried talking to her, restricting her screen time, moving her to a new school. Nothing worked because he was treating the symptom, not the cause. The damage was already done. Her sense of self had been handed over to an algorithm before she even knew how she had to protect it. They almost lost her, but they didn't. And what Savior wasn't a therapist or a program or a screen time app? It was Axel slowly, painstakingly,
intentionally rebuilding her identity from the ground up, teaching her who she was before the phone told her who she should be. It took two years. It was the hardest thing he had ever done. And now she's okay. Not perfect, but okay. Herself again. And Axel cannot stop thinking about every other parent who's watching the same thing happen to their daughter right now and has no idea what to do. He never considered making a channel about it because he's not a therapist. He's not a parenting expert. He's just a dad who almost lost his daughter to an algorithm and figured out how to get her back. And that's exactly the point.
I mean, it's so profound.
Because if Axel built a channel helping parents protect their daughter's sense of self before social media gets to them, do you think he would quit when his views dropped? Do you think he would stop showing up when the algorithm didn't reward him? Do you think he would run out of things to say? Not a chance.
Because the problem is still there right now. Somewhere, a 12 year old girl just got her phone, and her dad has no idea what's coming. That's the difference between a position and an obsession.
Position is photography because you're good at it, it's fun, and it might make money. Obsession is because you watched your daughter disappear and you refused to let it happen to anyone else. And that's the equation I want to teach here. Niche equals problem you can't look away from plus transformation
you believe is possible plus obsession.
That survives the hard moments. All three have to be there. The problem gives you direction. The transformation gives your audience a reason to follow you. And the obsession is what keeps you showing up when nobody is watching you yet. Because YouTube will test you. The views will drop. The algorithm will change. There will be weeks where you wonder why you're doing this. And in those moments, the only thing that will keep you going is not loving your topic. It's being unable to stop caring about the problem.
Axel with his photography channel will quit. Axel with his daughter's story, the channel he almost never made, will still be there in five years, still showing up, still fighting the fight. Because he knows somewhere a dad just like him is watching his daughter disappear and doesn't know what to do yet, and Axel does. And here's the final piece of this, the one most people never consider when choosing their niche. Mark Manson talks about this in the same book. He says most people think about what they want, the outcome, the dream, the destination. I want a successful channel. I want financial freedom. I wanna make an impact. And those things aren't wrong to want, but they're not a strategy. The real question is, what are you willing to suffer for to get there? Because YouTube has a tax, and it doesn't care about your passion. The tax is slow growth. It's pouring yourself into a video that gets three views. It's showing up consistently for months with no real sign that it's working. It's being vulnerable in public and visible on days when you feel like hiding. It's watching someone in your space blow up overnight while you're still grinding in obscurity. That's the tax. And everyone pays it. The question is, who keeps paying it? You see, passion isn't just loving what you do. It's loving it enough to sacrifice for it. And that's actually the clearest distinction between passion and obsession I can give you. Passion makes you excited to start. Obsession makes you unable to stop.
Passion says, I love this topic. Obsession says, this problem needs solving, and I am not done until it is. Passion fades when the views drop. Obsession doesn't care about the views. It cares about the problem still being there. So before you land on your niche, I want you to ask yourself one more question.
Not just, does this problem obsess me, but am I willing to endure the specific pain that comes with solving it publicly on YouTube for as long as it takes? Because that answer will tell you everything.
Axel with his photography channel, when the views drop, the pain wasn't worth it, there was nothing deeper pulling him through, he will quit. Axel with his daughter's story, every slow month, every ignored video, every moment of self doubt is just a tax he pays to reach the one dad who's watching his daughter disappear right now and doesn't know what to do. That tax, Axel will pay it forever.
And that's how you know you've found your niche. So here's what I want you to do right now. Take any niche idea you're currently sitting with, something you've been considering, something you keep coming back to or your current niche. Could be one idea. Could be three ideas. Doesn't matter. Take all of them and run them through these three filters.
Filter one, the can't look away test. When this problem exists in the world, does it genuinely bother you? Not intellectually,
viscerally.
Does it keep you up at night? Do you find yourself talking about it unprompted? Do you get frustrated when you see it not being addressed? Or is it just interesting to you? Because interesting is not enough. It has to bother you at a level that goes beyond curiosity.
Filter two, the transformation test. Can you clearly describe what life looks like for someone on the other side of this problem? Not vaguely, specifically. What does that person feel, do, experience differently once the problem is solved? If you can't picture the transformation clearly, you don't have a niche yet. You have a topic, and a topic alone will not build a successful channel or business. Filter number three, the hard day test. Imagine your channel has been going for six months. Your views are low. Your best video has 200 views. Nobody has reached out. Would you still keep going? Not because you think it will eventually work, but because the problem still exists and you feel compelled to talk about it anyway. If the answer is yes, that's your niche. If the answer is maybe, keep looking. Run every idea you have through those three filters. The one that passes all three, that's what you build. And if nothing passes all three yet, that's not failure. That's clarity. It means you haven't found it yet, and now you know exactly what you're looking for. And here's what I want you to know about what's possible on the other side of this. I've seen it with my own clients. The ones that stay, the ones that keep showing up despite all the pain and uncertainty and the slow months that come with building a YouTube channel are without exception the ones who are obsessed with their topic. They have a mission that is bigger than their view count. The algorithm can't touch that. And by the way, they are all the ones that are succeeding with building a business. The ones who struggle are the ones who get swayed. They see a random channel blow up in a completely different niche, and suddenly they're questioning everything. They start chasing what worked for someone else instead of going deeper on what only they can say, and that's when the wheels come off. And I look at my own channel. Every time I got off track, every time I leaned into what made logical sense strategically,
what I thought I should do instead of what I was called to do, my views dropped. My energy dropped. The whole thing felt like work in the worst possible way. But I always came home, back to my mission, back to why I started. Because my mission is you, stepping fully into who you are meant to be, doing what you are obsessed with and getting paid for it, making a positive impact on this world. Your dreams are not silly. Your dreams are your gift. And a life that ignores them is a miserable life that creates a miserable and bitter world. So find the problem you can't look away from, build around the transformation you believe is possible, and show up for it even when it's hard, especially
when it's hard.
So let me leave you with this. Your niche isn't a topic. It's not a demographic. It's not a content category. It's the problem you can't stop seeing as broken and the transformation you believe is possible on the other side of it. Find that, and you'll never have to force yourself to show up again. And by the way, if you made it to the end of this video, it's probably because of the way I structure my videos. So check out this video next on how to capture and keep your viewers engaged until the end of your video. See you there. Bye.