§ 01 · The Hook
The bait, then the rug-pull.
The Hypnotist opens with a bet: you have at least one habit that is costing you something — energy, health, self-respect. The session that follows does not ask you to fight that habit. It asks you to stop wanting it.
Where the time goes.
00:00 – 00:39
01 · Intro and disclaimer
Legal disclaimer card, podcast jingle, show intro narration.
00:39 – 03:46
02 · Pre-session briefing
Adam explains the Whack-a-Mole replacement trap, introduces the Marble Jar physical reinforcement technique, and sets the session context: wine and sugar habits.
03:46 – 10:49
03 · Induction
Deep breathing guidance, progressive body relaxation, safe-place visualization, countdown from 10 to 1 into deep trance state.
10:49 – 17:08
04 · Alcohol identity reframe
Shifts listener identity from trying not to drink to someone who simply does not drink — modeled on the non-smoker who needs no willpower to avoid cigarettes.
17:08 – 26:14
05 · Refined sugar reframe
Frames refined sugar as a drug with cocaine-equivalent reward pathway activation, explains the spike-crash cycle, builds visceral recognition of what refined sugar does to the body.
26:14 – 31:14
06 · Choosing your addiction
Explains the brain reward-system engineering behind habit substitution; invites the listener to consciously redirect the dopamine drive toward movement, accomplishment, and real reward.
31:14 – 34:46
07 · Marble Jar visualization
Guides a vivid imagining of the physical jar filling with marbles across 6 months, future self assessment, intentional door closing and opening.
34:46 – 35:58
08 · Wake-up and return
Count 1 to 10 to return from trance, finger and toe wiggle, calibration to the present.
35:58 – 36:51
09 · Outro
Rating request, share prompt, ad-free subscription CTA for hypnosis-only version.
Lines you could clip.
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"You are not someone who wants to drink, but is trying not to drink. You are someone who simply does not drink because you simply do not want to."
20:16
"The reward pathway activated by refined sugar is the same reward pathway activated by cocaine. The mechanisms of craving is chemically identical."
28:26
"What do you want to be addicted to? That drive to seek reward and pleasure is not going away. Nor would you want it to. The question is only ever — toward what shall this drive be aimed?"
30:50
"A substance gives the feeling of reward without the underlying reality. Whereas accomplishment gives the feeling of reward because of the underlying reality."
Things they pointed at.
Word for word.
HOOK opening / re-engagementCTA the pitch metaphor analogy story
00:05HOOKWelcome to the hypnotist. The show that gives you inside access to cutting edge hypnosis with real clients facing genuine issues. Brought to you by the hypnotherapist
00:42HOOKThis is a guess because I don't know you personally. You've got at least one bad habit, something that isn't that healthy, and something that if you did less of that and more of something else, actually, it would improve the quality of your life, you would feel better about yourself, you might have more energy, more health, more confidence, something like that.
01:01HOOKWell, you've come to the right place because this hypnosis session is all about reducing unhealthy habits and increasing healthy habits.
01:10HOOKAnd there was a client that I was working with that used to drink alcohol on their own and then they stopped drinking alcohol and they started having sugary sweets and they didn't wanna replace one with the other. So you might be familiar with a game called Whack a Mole where in these kind of arcades,
01:29HOOKa little animal would pop up, you hit it with a a little hammer and then another one pops up somewhere else. That can happen with habits that actually, um, you break one habit and then another
01:40HOOKunhealthy habit just replaces it. So we don't want this psychological whack a mole taking place. What we want is to be intentional.
01:47HOOKThere's one habit reduces, a healthy habit replaces it. And, um, it's good to have behavioral psychology
01:55HOOKalongside the hypnosis within this, and I make reference to a marble jar. So if you just think of a big vase,
02:10HOOKNow just imagine that you've got lots of marbles and every time you did something healthy instead of something unhealthy, you put one of those marbles and you put it in the jar and you could probably imagine what that would sound like, the rattling around,
02:28HOOKthat actually means that you get to feel good whenever you do the healthy thing. And then you get to feel good by rewarding yourself by putting the marble in the jar. And you also get to feel good whenever you see that jar
02:39HOOKfilling up with marbles to say, oh, I've got lots and lots of healthy habits that I'm building in my life. So that's a it's a metaphor within the hypnosis, but I would encourage you to buy that big jar, buy the pack of marbles,
02:54HOOKand then give yourself a rule that says when you do something healthy or you do the habit that you want to cultivate more of, put a marble in the jar, uh, and then that creates a wonderful self fulfilling prophecy and positive reinforcement,
03:15HOOKThat's the habits that this client wanted to change and be more active and do things like more yoga and walking and things like that. It might be different for you. So if you like the idea of a bespoke session,
03:28HOOKsomething crafted specifically for you, have a look in the show notes because there's a suitability test, and there's a webinar, and there's various downloads and courses all there in the show notes. So check those out. For now though, find a quiet comfortable place where you won't be distracted or disturbed.
03:47Relax and enjoy the session.
04:06Take a deep breath in. And as you breathe in,
04:13breathe in that slow, long, relaxing breath. And as you exhale,
04:22allow your eyes to close and position your body in such a way where you can really feel
04:30comfortable and relaxed. That's it.
04:36Breathing and relaxation
04:40and exhaling tension.
04:45Each breath facilitates a release,
04:51A release of any stress and worries. A release of any frustration or annoyance. A release of anything that has been
05:03contributing to anything other than calm, peace,
05:10tranquility, and acceptance.
05:16And when you breathe in, breathe in slightly deeper than you normally would.
05:22And as you exhale, allow the outward breath to continue
05:30for longer than it normally would.
05:35And the deeper you breathe,
05:38the more relaxed you feel.
05:42And the more relaxed you feel, the deeper you breathe.
05:48And just scan your body for any clues of tension, stress, any echoes of emotions that aren't needed right now.
06:00And every exhale,
06:04allow yourself. Give permission to just let go
06:10and feel the release of that unnecessary emotion there
06:17in the outward breath.
06:23That's it.
06:27And there may be sensations, tingles, twitches,
06:35lightness or heaviness that lets you know that this release is happening.
06:45And every time you notice something,
06:49you allow your unconscious mind to facilitate more of that release.
07:01Because there is nothing that needs to be done, nothing to manage, nothing to figure out. Just this,
07:12just now.
07:15Just the simple permission to arrive somewhere quieter
07:21than outside.
07:26Noise doesn't just come from building work and the external environment.
07:36Sometimes noise happens inside your own mind.
07:42The nervous system sometimes forgets what stillness feels like until
07:51it remembers.
07:56Notice the weight of your body, the places of contact and support, the breath
08:05moving on its own without instruction,
08:10Reliable. Constant. Always there
08:16even when everything else felt uncertain.
08:25Your unconscious mind is incredibly resourceful.
08:32It's been working on your behalf even in the hardest weeks.
08:37It's been finding clarity in places you didn't expect it.
08:44And here, now, today, you get to let that clarity settle,
08:52to deepen, to become something that lives in the body and not just the mind.
09:05I want you to remember a place, a place perhaps that only you know,
09:15a place from childhood, a place in nature, Perhaps a place outside that felt
09:22yours.
09:26Maybe it was surrounded by trees or water or open sky.
09:32It doesn't even have to be a real place. It could be just within your imagination.
09:40A place the mind goes when it needs to find itself again.
09:48And in this place,
09:51there is a particular quality of light, the kind that makes everything feel truthful, the kind that
10:02doesn't allow shadows to be confused for solid things.
10:10And with each breath, you can go deeper into this place.
10:18As I count down from 10 to one, give permission to go deeper. 10.
10:27Nine. The ordinary noise of the day receding. Eight.
10:35Seven. Six.
10:40Arms and legs becoming heavier and more relaxed, more at ease. Five. Four.
10:47Three. A deep, comfortable stillness.
10:52Two and then one.
10:56And what if here, in this space of deep knowing, your unconscious
11:04is listening,
11:07ready to receive what is true, what is real,
11:15what you have already decided at a level far deeper than words.
11:27You already know that there is a particular kind of freedom that doesn't need to announce itself loudly. It arrives quietly
11:40in the gap between the old habit and the new decision,
11:47And sometimes a person doesn't fully recognize it for what it is.
11:55Think of a realization
12:00where you have arrived at something important, not through willpower and not through struggle or white knuckling your way through a craving,
12:12but through genuine clarity.
12:16The kind that comes when the body and mind and all of your history and experience all speak
12:25at once and say, no.
12:30Not this. Not anymore.
12:38I want you to think of that recent moment where it made sense.
12:46You introduced a boundary and felt no fear of loss,
12:52but a sense of liberation. You escaped the issue.
12:59You weren't running away from it.
13:04A direct message from your own intuition, your own experience saying,
13:13I don't want to drink alcohol at all.
13:19You don't want it, and that is not a limitation,
13:26not a sacrifice. That is simply a fact about who you are. You don't want it
13:35anymore.
13:39You are not someone who wants to drink, but is trying not to drink. You are someone who simply does not drink because you simply do not want to,
13:54and you can notice the difference between those two identities.
14:01The person trying not to do something is always in a mild state of resistance, still attached
14:11to the thing, a constant struggle, second guessing.
14:22But the person who simply does not want to do it and does not do it has stepped outside the equation
14:31entirely.
14:34They are not at war with alcohol. They are indifferent to it.
14:45In the same way that a nonsmoker that would never want to smoke
14:54does not need willpower to not pick up a cigarette, It's just
15:02background noise. It exists. It's there,
15:09but they do not want it.
15:14And your unconscious mind can make this shift, not as an instruction to be enforced,
15:24but as a recognition of what is already true. You've already crossed the threshold.
15:33The decision has already been made.
15:40This is just enabling all parts of your unconscious
15:47to recalibrate, to synthesize, to integrate.
15:56And whenever you think about a future where alcohol might be present, you already know in advance
16:06you don't want it.
16:10Alcohol is not in your future, but it was in your past.
16:18It belongs to a version of you that you have already outgrown.
16:27And every social situation that once felt like it required willpower or negotiation, every offer of a drink,
16:38every moment where the old habit would have reached for something in a glass, can now carry a different feeling. Not deprivation,
16:50not discipline. Simply the quiet satisfaction
16:57of someone who knows exactly who they are.
17:09You fully integrated that realization now. So let's turn your attention to something else,
17:17something that wears a more innocent disguise.
17:25Your body has been sending equally clear signals about,
17:31and there is a substance, an addictive substance, a poisonous substance
17:40responsible for killing millions each year that is added to almost everything
17:49that has been normalized so completely that the food industry has made billions ensuring people never stop to question it.
18:02It hides in birthday cakes and office biscuits and sauces and condiments,
18:14and the body experiences not as a food, but as a drug.
18:22Some people call it the most deadly of the white poisons, refined sugar.
18:31Not the natural sugars in an apple or a banana or dried fruit like a fig.
18:39These things come packaged with fiber. A grape has sugar, but has water
18:48to carry and dilute that sugar.
18:52Fruits have micronutrients. They work with the body's enzymes, but the white
19:01crystalline substance that has been stripped of everything except its hit.
19:10When refined sugar enters the bloodstream in a drink or a sweet
19:18or a piece of chocolate, it does not behave like food. It creates
19:26a spike, a rapid elevation of dopamine and blood glucose that feels briefly
19:36like relief, like reward, like pleasure, distilled crystallized gratification.
19:45And then, like all drug hits, it drops rapidly,
19:52and the drop creates the craving for the next hit.
20:00This isn't a metaphor. This is real biochemistry.
20:08The reward pathway activated by refined sugar is the same reward pathway
20:16activated by cocaine. The mechanisms of craving is chemically identical.
20:25The withdrawal is real. The tolerance builds, and the dose required to get the same effect increases
20:35over time, affecting the blood, the body, the brain.
20:43Refined sugar is not a treat even if it's hidden in colorful packaging.
20:51It is a drug. And if you see it clearly now for what it is, let me know by nodding your head. That's it.
21:04And sometimes it's sneaky.
21:09Those fruit juices that come from concentrate that has sugar,
21:17the syrups, the jams. It's obvious when it's a sugar cube. It's obvious when it's a can of fizzy drink.
21:30But I want you to imagine being able to look at something that you know contains sugar, the way you might look at a line of cocaine on a table
21:44with clear eyes.
21:47Nobody sees cocaine and think, oh, that's harmless.
21:54They know it's corrosive, addictive,
22:00but a drug user does it anyway.
22:06Once you see sugar for what it really is, you don't want it in refined form. You only want it in natural form.
22:20Something that is wonderful in nature
22:27is toxic when it's gone through that process of refinement,
22:35taking everything good, nutrients,
22:38water, fiber out. That's what makes it dangerous.
22:46You see sugar with the knowledge of what it actually is and what it actually does, not with fear or craving, but with the calm recognition of someone who has decided
23:01that this is not for me anymore. Not because I cannot,
23:09but because I know what it is, and I don't want that.
23:17Sugar withdrawal is real.
23:22It feels like it can cause tiredness,
23:27cloudiness, fatigue, irritability,
23:33But your unconscious mind is already prepared for it,
23:38considering it a tunnel short or long with a clear light at the end of that tunnel. And when you get to the other side, you're free of it.
23:53And any inner dialogue that says it's harmless is like .
24:03If you nibble at the bait, it pulls you back in.
24:09If a fish knew the bait had a hook, of course, they'd never eat it,
24:16but they don't. And that's what leads to their demise.
24:24Some people believe that when you know better, you do better.
24:32When you see refined sugar for what it really is, even a commercial of a soft drink of ice cream takes on a sinister connotation,
24:47These companies know it's addictive. It kills people.
24:54A hundred years from now, they will look at adverts, for high sugar products in the same way that we look at adverts for cigarette companies in the nineteen fifties.
25:09They knew, and yet they did them anyway.
25:18You are out or soon to be out of that tunnel, already free of it,
25:27with no desire to nibble at the bait.
25:33The food industry has little interest in you discovering
25:39an energy that is steady rather than spiked.
25:45Your unconscious will crave real, natural foods
25:51where your blood sugar levels rise slowly and fall slowly,
25:59not spike and crash.
26:05Your body runs clean. You choose food that nourishes, not substances that spike
26:13and crash.
26:23It's interesting how the mind works when a habit is removed,
26:28Something important that your unconscious can hold onto as a piece of protective wisdom.
26:37The human mind, the reward system is ancient.
26:42It is wired not for health or longevity or spiritual growth,
26:51but for immediate relief from discomfort, for the quickest available
26:57dopamine, for the nearest exit from an uncomfortable feeling.
27:06And when one door is closed, the mind, with its remarkable efficiency, immediately begins searching for the nearest open door.
27:17And this is why people stop smoking and then start snacking. Stop drinking and begin compulsive online shopping.
27:28Leave one difficult relationship and unconsciously find their way into a structurally identical one.
27:38This is not weakness. It's engineering. The internal reward system doing exactly what it was designed to do.
27:50And because you see the mechanism clearly, you can work with it rather than being worked by it.
28:01You do not replace one crutch with another, one destructive habit with another. You get to choose where your dopamine comes from
28:14consciously, deliberately, with full
28:17awareness.
28:21And the question your unconscious can sit with is,
28:26what do you want to be addicted to?
28:31That drive to seek reward and pleasure is not going away. Nor would you want it to. It's what gets you out of bed.
28:43What draws you towards beauty and connection and craft? The question is only ever toward what shall this drive be aimed?
28:58Your body has its own intelligence about this.
29:03It already knows what it means to feel genuinely well, genuinely alive, And there are activities that produce the same neurochemicals
29:14as substances, but without the consequence and the death, without the withdrawal,
29:22without the morning after.
29:26The best example is movement, exertion, the physical world meeting the body with real resistance and real reward
29:37that also produces dopamine, but also endorphins and serotonin
29:44in a form the body recognizes as earned, as real,
29:50as sustainable.
29:53An accomplishment, The particular satisfaction of
29:59making that important decision, learning that new thing, making something with your hands,
30:08getting something done that you've been putting off, all of that also releases that dopamine.
30:18What if you were addicted to movement,
30:25exercise, walking, or accomplishment?
30:31This is not a substitute for the thing you are leaving behind. It is something of an entirely different order because a substance gives the feeling of reward
30:44without the underlying reality.
30:48Whereas accomplishment gives the feeling of reward because
30:53of the underlying reality.
30:58The reward and the achievement are proportionate. And what if you are building a life where your dopamine is real,
31:09where the feeling of reward and the thing you have done are connected?
31:18I want you to create an image in your mind, a big jar made of glass,
31:26maybe a glass vase.
31:29Just imagine every time you do something that required
31:36effort, a difficult decision, you solved a problem.
31:44You did that thing you wanted to do. Just imagine placing a marble in a box next to it into the jar.
31:57Hear it clink.
32:01Maybe it spirals round. Maybe it has that bouncing sound of a glass marble and glass.
32:11When you do the thing, you feel good. When you put the marble in the jar,
32:18you feel good. And every time you see the marbles in the jar accumulating,
32:28you feel good.
32:36And I wonder if you could imagine six months from now,
32:44six months of being free of alcohol and refined sugar,
32:51then I want you to see that jar or that big vase filled with marbles,
32:58and then look at clues.
33:03Maybe it's a dog that's smiling and happy.
33:09Maybe it's more energy levels and better sleep. Maybe you feel
33:18better in your own body.
33:22Almost like every marble is proof, proof of who you are choosing to be. Proof that you can be addicted to things that enhance your life rather than destroy it.
33:40Choosing to do difficult things when there's every reason not to
33:49may encourage you to put two marbles in the jar for something particularly difficult.
34:01And I want you to assess how you would feel about your life six months from now. What trajectory are you on? Where is your life taking you?
34:14Is it better or worse
34:18than when evenings were filled drinking wine?
34:24If your unconscious is now willing
34:30to shut one door
34:35and be very intentional as to the new door you're opening. Let me know by nodding your head.
34:42That's it. And so it's time to return. You return with clarity.
34:52You return with synergy, alignment, an identity that feels
35:01exciting, positive.
35:06It feels like possibility. So take a deep breath in through your nose, hand out through your nose,
35:15and wiggle your fingers and wiggle your toes. Connect and calibrate into the here and the now as I now count from one to 10 to awaken you.
35:29Starting to count.
35:33One, two, three, waking up. Four, five, six. More alert.
35:39Seven, eight. Open your eyes. Open your eyes.
35:43Nine, ten. Wide awake. Wide awake.
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§ 05 · For Joe
Identity beats willpower every time.
WHAT TO LEARN
The gap between trying not to and simply do not want is the entire distance between struggle and freedom — and the Marble Jar makes the healthy replacement feel as rewarding as the habit it replaces.
- Willpower keeps you attached to the thing you are resisting; identity reframing removes the attachment entirely, the way a lifelong non-smoker has no urge to resist a cigarette.
- The brain does not tolerate a closed dopamine door — when one habit is removed, it immediately searches for the nearest replacement, which is why intentional habit substitution must be deliberate, not accidental.
- Refined sugar activates the same reward pathway as cocaine, builds the same tolerance, and produces real withdrawal symptoms — the framing matters because it defuses the just a treat rationalization.
- The Marble Jar creates three separate reward moments from a single healthy choice: the act itself, the physical drop of the marble, and the visual accumulation over time — compounding behavioral reinforcement.
- Accomplishment and movement produce the same neurochemicals as substances, but the reward is proportionate to the underlying reality — it is earned rather than borrowed against future cost.
- The question is never how to eliminate the drive for reward, but toward what to aim it — redirecting an existing drive is more sustainable than suppressing a biological system.
