I want you to picture two people. Same age, same education, same living conditions, but one of them seems to be living with a lucky star above their head. Doors open, opportunities arrive, relationships flow, and the other one is constantly fighting,
constantly feeling like they're swimming against a current they can't even see. And the difference between those two people is not destiny, it's not strategy, it's not luck. The difference is something far more subtle and far more powerful. So each one is creating their own reality every single day without even knowing it through an invisible mechanism that I call the mirror principle. Now, I did an episode on this a few months back, but today, I'm gonna go even deeper with you by teaching you the three external mirrors that are reflecting back your interstate. Once you understand these mirrors and what they're reflecting, you can reclaim control over your own reality. So let's get into it.
Alright, guys. So like a lot of people, I thought reality
was judging me, punishing me, sometimes rewarding me for years.
But the truth is that reality was not doing that to me. Reality was not testing me. Reality is not testing you. It is reflecting you. It is a feedback loop of consciousness.
In other words, what you believe becomes real.
If you believe money is scarce, you're gonna experience financial insecurity a 100% of the time guaranteed.
Joe Dispenza says it really well. He says your personality becomes your personal reality.
So life is reflecting back to you what it is that you believe. Reality is a mirror. And that means the moment that you don't like what you see, you have a responsibility.
You have an ability to respond,
and you respond by changing something inside of you. That mirror just handed you the keys. Now if you follow this show, you've probably heard me talk about this before. It's called the mirror principle. And I wanna take this deeper than I've ever taken it before on the show. And before we get into the three mirrors, I need you to understand the bigger frame here. A lot of people, physicists,
mystics,
ancient wisdom traditions, they all describe reality in a similar way. They describe it as a holographic
experience. It's a projection. It's like a video game.
It's not random. It's not chaos,
but it is a perfectly orchestrated reality which is projecting externally what you believe internally, and it's played back to you in three-dimensional form.
Now the good news is is you are not a helpless bystander. You are the director
behind the camera of the projection.
Now most people, myself included, spend most of their lives trying to fix the projection.
It's like walking up to the screen and trying to change the scene because we don't like it.
But the truth is is that nothing actually changes. Yeah. We may temporarily solve a financial problem, but then we're in financial insecurity again. Solve our health challenge or we're in a health problem again.
Solve some other issue that shows up in our life, but we end up playing life whack a mole because you cannot fix a projection
by trying to change the screen. You have to change what's coming out of the projector itself.
And so I want you to write this down. You control what's being projected
by paying attention to what's being reflected.
Inside this projection,
there are three universal mirrors. Every single one of us
has these mirrors. Doesn't matter if you're rich or poor, employed or unemployed,
you got a business or you don't, married or single, famous or unknown. There are three consistent feedback systems
that your consciousness
is trying to inform you of so that you can actually achieve your full potential.
They're with you every single day of your life. And once you learn how to read these three mirrors, you don't just change one area of your life. You actually become a master of your own reality. Now before we get into these three mirrors, it's important to understand that your thoughts are not just thoughts.
It's important to understand as Napoleon Hill said, your thoughts are things. They are vibrations. They are electromagnetic,
and they're also neurological.
So you've been built with this human being operating system with a nervous system that is an electrical conduit system.
You resonated at a frequency or vibration,
which is your habit of thought and habit of emotion. And when you were a kid,
you had experiences
and you started to build memories of your life. It's really interesting when you're born. You're born with a 100,000,000,000 neurons and about 25,000,000,000 synaptic connections. So a lot of your brain wasn't wired, but by the time you're seven years old, you still have a 100,000,000,000 neurons and you have over a quadrillion synaptic connections. What happened? Well, life happened. And in every single moment, you're ingesting
through your five senses
the information of your reality, and you're compiling it in a database, which is what a memory is.
But in those memories, you not only stored what you saw, what you smelled, what you tasted, what you touch,
what you heard,
but you stored the meaning that you gave the experience.
And what happened over time was each time you had a new experience, your brain looked into the database of itself and said, what was the meaning we gave this type of experience last time?
And it applied the same meaning. So you literally looked for evidence to support the meaning that you gave the experience the first time around and you ignored
any potential observation that was not in alignment with the experience you gave before had before. So for example, uh, if you were attacked by a dog, it doesn't matter if the next time it was a friendly dog,
you literally interpreted the movements, the sound, the barking, the positioning, the posture of the dog as dangerous because that's what you looked for. You literally looked for repetition of that experience.
And so you found the same meaning over and over and over again. So if you were taught that children were to
be seen and not heard,
you started looking for more and more examples of why you weren't worthy of being heard. If you had watched your parents work really, really hard to make money, you started paying attention to how money was hard to make. It doesn't mean that that was absolute in your reality. It just mean that that's the dimension of reality that you paid attention to. And so as you did that over and over again, you built a pathway in your brain.
And this became your go to way of thinking, feeling, and acting.
And if you look at the results that you produce in your life,
they are a byproduct of how you habitually think and how you habitually feel and how you habitually act. So it would just make sense that you would find results
that are in alignment with what you believed about the situation because your brain is a goal achieving machine. So the results you produced in your reality, they reflect back to you the same thoughts and the same emotions that created them in the first place. I want you to get this. The results that you produce in reality
always reflect back to you your core thoughts and beliefs because it's your thoughts and your beliefs that determine action and action produces results. So we can always trace it back to your core belief systems. This isn't mystical.
It's neurological.
Right? Now there's a mystical part to it. There's a vibrational part to it. But because that neurology is vibrational.
Right? So your nervous system is vibrational. But just on a practical level, what you believe determines how you think and how you feel, which determines how you act, which determines the results that you produce. So we always know
what you're thinking and feeling because we can look at the results. But at the same time, because this is an electromagnetic phenomenon that is occurring inside of you, you're broadcasting. You're broadcasting to the world of frequency that calls forth coincidences and people and circumstances
that also reflect
this vibration, which again has a correlate, which is thoughts and emotions.
So you start lining up situations and circumstances. Someone you run into treats you poorly because you believe you're not worthy of being treated well. Right? This is the mirror. So all of this is plugged into a a what I would call a super intelligence. It's an omniscient mirror.
Right? Reality or higher power or God or Jesus or law or however you relate to it. This system of intelligence that surrounds us every single day. And it's picking up on our frequency,
and it's rendering it back in physical form. This is how we're creating our reality. This is why two people can walk into the exact same situation and have completely different experiences
because they have different frequencies and therefore reality will be a mirror to them differently.
So the mirror in front of you right now, meaning your life, is not a coincidence.
It's a it's a perfect match based on your vibration and based on your habit of thought, emotion, and action. What you're experiencing right now in your life is the sum total of what you've been thinking and feeling up until now. Hey, it's David. Quick interruption to your regularly scheduled podcast episode. I wanna let you know about an opportunity to go even deeper into this work together. If you have not yet,
please check out the show notes. In there, we've got links to both our mind hack and our whole human framework programs.
Our mind hack course is an incredible framework. It's the foundation of everything that I teach on this show to help you understand how to become deeply aware of the subconscious programs that are holding you back and to teach you the technologies and frameworks to allow you to dramatically transform those belief systems and rewire your brain. Again, Mindhack program is our seven day self paced program. We also have our twelve week course, the whole human framework. And we've got both of them right now bundled in a special offer for those of you who wanna go big, wanna go fast, and who understand that you don't wanna put off another day of your full potential or holding on to unnecessary stress, anxiety, or suffering, but you wanna be liberated from these habits of thinking and have a powerful living experience. Check out the link in the show notes, jump on over to the website,
take a look at the programs and the extraordinary success stories of entrepreneurs just like you who've gone through these courses, and I will see you on the other side. And now, back to your regularly scheduled podcast episode. So let me make this real.
I've told the story about how I met my wife Carol many times. Right? But today, I want you to look underneath the story.
So I had been thinking for many, many years that I was gonna be alone for the rest of my life because I after I was single for, like, three, four, five years and having wanted to meet someone to be in a serious relationship with them that not happening, I started giving a me a meaning to that experience, which was I was gonna be alone for the rest of my life. Now, it's interesting because I did watch my parents get divorced and you could interpret my mom's scenario
afterwards as being alone for the rest of her life. So I had evidence for that, but I started to understand the mirror principle.
And so I made a decision that I there there were still some good women out there, that I was gonna meet my soul mate, that I'd been in the process of kind of perfecting and refining myself. And now I was at a point where, you know, I was in vibrational line with with meeting the type of person that I wanted to meet. And all of the other women that I had gone out with were served a great purpose in helping me get clarity and define who it is that I wanted to be with. I cleaned up my belief system and I realigned my vibration.
And so
reality needed to reflect that back to me. And what's so beautiful about the way the mirror principle works is that reality guides you
to the next evolution of your mirror through
nonlinear ways. I I made a decision
when I was single, um, to get really, really strong. And one day, I decided to put too much weight on a shoulder press, and I tore my shoulder. Simultaneous to that, like several months before, I made a decision to date a woman, and then I stopped dating her.
But after I tore my shoulder about six months later, I made a decision to walk into a restaurant on some random night, and I ran into that same woman. And we had a conversation,
and
I hadn't made an unconscious decision to mention that my shoulder was torn, and she mentioned a doctor that she knew in Sarasota. And that doctor turned out to be the path to my wife because one night when I was, uh, out in Sarasota celebrating this doctor's birthday after he had treated my shoulder on a Friday evening. I went to a restaurant, I met my wife Carol. None of these decisions felt connected at the time, but all of them were. And that's the mirror materializing.
Right?
So, of course, if I believe that there were no good ones out there and I was gonna be alone for the rest of my life, then that's what my relationship mirror would reflect back to me. But the moment I made a new new decision, I changed internally through a series of,
um, seemingly random circumstances that were all hyper intelligently aligned.
I ended up meeting my soul mate. Right? So this is the way the mirror principle works.
It's not that your external circumstances are happening to you. They are a byproduct of what it is that you believe inside of you. And I changed
my belief. I decided I was gonna meet someone, someone special, someone beautiful. I even decided that she would be Colombian.
And the mirror, within a short period of time, reflected that back to me. And this is an example of the relationship mirror. It is the first of the three mirrors. Maybe you're in a relationship where there's argument or mistrust.
Well, then that's reflecting something back to you. What is it reflecting? That's the question. What is it reflecting back to me? The the fact that I'm in this relationship where I'm arguing with my spouse all the time,
what is it reflecting back to me? Because if I wanna change my relationship, I have to understand what the mirror is reflecting and change something inside of me. What is the is the reflection? And the beautiful answer to that question is, however you're reacting to the situation,
that's the belief that created the situation in the first place.
So if you're having a conflict with your partner and it's she never understands me, nobody ever understands me,
that belief is actually what created this
dynamic in your relationship in the first place. If
you're always being criticized
and your reaction to this dynamic in your relationship is, I never do anything right or other people think I always do things wrong, that's actually the unresolved belief that wants to be addressed.
Address that belief
and your relationship must change. The mirror must change.
So let me show you the same logic
in the other two mirrors so that you can actually reflect
upon your own. Right? So you have the relationship mirror, then there's the body mirror. Right? The body mirror or the health mirror. And I had years of mysterious health conditions,
and my reaction to it was always the same.
I would say there's something wrong with me. Right? I have I'd have heart heart palpitations. There's something wrong with me. I'd have insomnia. There's something wrong with me. I ended up getting really high levels of mercury and mold toxicity
and having some neuro weird neurological symptoms. And my reaction to it was always the same. There's something wrong with me. But that there's something wrong with me belief, that started at the age of seven.
I've shared this on other episodes where I had a dynamic with my dad. It was a very specific school project we were working on where my dad said, hey, let me show you a better way to do it. And the conclusion
that I came to was that I didn't know how to do things right and there was something wrong with me. And at the same time, got programmed
because my mom started to struggle with her health too.
So that program my inner mirror and my body became the proof of the program. Right? It became my belief system.
My health is significantly improved now, not because I went and tried to solve my health,
but because I worked on this, um, inner belief system I had that there was something wrong with me. Once I started really transforming that and realizing there's nothing wrong with me, then that actually is how my body started reflecting back to me. That's the second mirror. It's your body or the health mirror. Right? Relationship mirror, body or health mirror. The third one is the money mirror.
And so, you know, again, these are these are three mirrors that we all have. We all have a body. Last time I checked, we all have some form of health or absence of health. We all have relationships either with a significant other with people in the world, and we all have this dynamic with money. And most people grew up in
scarcity
or with a lot of money beliefs. Beliefs like money is hard to make or money is scarce, so you have to be worthy to make money. And so you can actually take a look at your bank account right now, and your reaction
to your bank account is actually the belief that's created your bank account. That that's the work for you to do. Take a look to see what you believe about money right now.
What is your experience of money right now? Because it's a mirror.
Right? And your experience, meaning your money situation, is reflecting back to you something about yourself. And this is why money can feel so elusive for so many people
is because
the reason they are in financial insecurity has nothing to do with money. It has to do, for example, with self esteem or worthiness or beliefs around reward or what's required in order to truly be free. I watched my dad. We grew up in an upper middle class family.
So money wasn't scarce. That was not one of my beliefs, but that tends to be a belief for many, many, many, many people. Right? A great question to ask yourself is complete this sentence. When I was growing up, money was blank.
Right? When I was growing up, money was blank.
Right? And so when I was growing up,
money was something you had to work really hard for. Right? My dad made money, but he was working all the time. Seventy, eighty, ninety hours a week. Only came home from my basketball games.
You know, missed a lot of, you know, my my weeknights
as a child with my dad because he was working all the time. As an entrepreneur,
I was making decent money, but, man, I was killing myself over it. Why? Because my business and my bank account were reflecting back to me this belief that I had that if you wanna have financial, uh, security, if you wanna make money, you have to work really, really hard. Right? This is the mirror. So these three mirrors are reflecting back to you your inner psyche.
Right? They're reflecting back to you the core beliefs and programs that you adopted at a time that most of us don't remember that are governing our reality right now, and the mirror does not lie. The only question is whether or not you're willing to take responsibility
for your reality
by realizing that it is a reflection
of who you are and to be willing to change who you are in order to change your reality. Because once you can read the mirror, you can change it. The mirror has no power of its own. It's only borrowing
the power that resides in each and every one of us. Now, here's the other thing is that as you start doing this work and realizing, wow, this part of my life is reflecting
an aspect of me back to me, and you start changing those beliefs, don't expect them to necessarily change overnight. Right? I've talked about this in other episodes. There's a delay. It's called the echo effect,
where your old reality will keep echoing for a little while
even as the new belief systems start to stabilize. And so you have to stay loyal to the new belief systems or this new identity that you're assuming allowing your reality to change. What most people do is they get into transformational work and they go, okay. I got there's a reflection here of one of these mirrors. I'm gonna come up with a new belief system and three days later, they're like, I don't understand. Nothing changed. And so they go back to the old belief system. But you need to stay loyal to the new belief. The mirror will always
catch up. So you change who you are and the mirror has no choice but to follow. Your money will change.
Your body or your health will change. Your relationships will change because you finally stopped staring at the reflection
and trying to fix it and started changing
the person who stands in front of the mirror. Right? You.
You control what's being projected
by paying attention to what's being reflected. So here's where I wanna leave you today. Right? The mirror is in front of you right now. It's called your life. And there's three major reflections, your money, your body, and your relationships. None of them are enemies. None of them are problems.
They are just neutral reflection points.
And really, this is the most loving feedback system that the universe has ever built. It's not about punishing you. It's not about shaming you. It's not it's not testing you. It is showing you with absolute precision
what you're still holding to be true about yourself. And that's a gift because anything you can see, you can change. So here's what I want you to do today. I want you to pick one of the three mirrors right now. Money,
health, or body,
or relationships.
Whichever one is loudest in your life. And I want you to ask yourself one question.
What is this mirror teaching me
about who I have been up until this moment? What is this mirror teaching me?
Don't fix the reflection.
Work on yourself. Change the one who's standing in front of it. It's incredibly informative. Notice your reaction to this mirror because that belief or that thought is actually what's created the circumstance or situation in your life in the first place. So if this video landed for you, do me a favor. Share it with one person in your life who keeps trying to fix the wrong thing. They need to hear this.
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by paying attention to what's being reflected.
I love you so much. Thank you for being here with me today, and I will see you in the next episode.