When you are with a real man, this is what happens.
Number one, he isn't always available for you because he has priorities. You are not the center of his universe, honey. I'm sorry. Number two, he will not drop everything just because you're sad or upset.
Yes, your feelings matter, but they don't get to hijack his whole entire day. Number three,
when he says no, it's no. Period. And that doesn't make him a jerk. Okay? That actually means that he has a spine.
Number four, he refuses
to have the same fight for the fifth time because peace really matters to him like a lot. And if that makes you mad, you might just be addicted to chaos.
Number five, he takes care of himself first.
Does that make him selfish? No. But who likes to pour from an empty cup? Number six, he will not chase you when you pull away. Nope. He won't do it. He will leave your ass. And if you don't believe me, just watch him. Okay? He's not begging anybody to stay. Number seven, he is steady,
consistent,
and predictable.
If you are used to drama,
that will feel boring.
But to the right woman,
that is going to feel like safety.
And number eight,
he needs sex all the time. Yes, girl. Men who are ambitious, driven, and goal oriented have high amounts of testosterone,
so be ready to give it to him all of the time or be ready to be replaced fast.
Good men don't bend over backwards for you. They're building and they're busy building a life worth having. And if you can't handle that, then stop wishing for it because you're not ready for it.